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Tuesday, May 25, 2021

Chicago and North Suburbs Plagued with Sex Trafficking, Parental Alienation, Child Rape, and Psychiatric Drugging of Molestation Victims

[Note: The full title of this article is

Chicago and North Suburbs Plagued with
Sex Trafficking, Parental Alienation, Child Rape, and Psychiatric Drugging of Molestation Victims:
Thirty-Eight People and Places Which Are Threats to Children's Safety

1. Brad W. Andersen, Lake Bluff realtor. His sons’ friend performed as a camgirl for him when she was in her early twenties.

2. Raymond Allen Boldt, Mundelein attorney. Commits parental alienation, a/k/a legal kidnapping from parents not proven unfit to care for children.

3. Janelle Christensen, Waukegan judge. Commits parental alienation, a/k/a legal kidnapping from parents not proven unfit to care for children.

4. Raymond D. Collins, Waukegan judge. Commits parental alienation, a/k/a legal kidnapping from parents not proven unfit to care for children.

5. Sean Curran, Lincolnshire police officer. In 2009, interrogated then 22-year-old Melissa Calusinski and coerced her into falsely confessing to murdering 1-year-old Benjamin Kingan.

6. Jonathan Dick, Lake Forest confectioner (owner of Sweet’s). Molested and/or raped the daughters of the mother, formerly of Lake Forest, who wrote the book Straying Towards Truth. Husband and accomplice of Susan Dick. May or may not be using the alias “Jonathan D. Jonathan”.

7. Susan Dick, Lake Forest confectioner (owner of Sweet’s). Molested and/or raped the daughters of the mother, formerly of Lake Forest, who wrote the book Straying Towards Truth. Wife and accomplice of Jonathan Dick.

8. Michael Feld, Northbrook psychiatrist. Had an affair with a client. Prescribed neurotranquilizing / sedative atypical antipsychotic medications to Joseph W. Kopsick when he attempted to come forward with child molestation allegations against his attorney father Richard S. Kopsick in 2015. Came recommende (to Richard Kopsick) by psychiatrist and youth counselor Sol Rappaport.

9. George Filenko, Lincolnshire police officer. In 2009, interrogated then 22-year-old Melissa Calusinski and coerced her into falsely confessing to murdering 1-year-old Benjamin Kingan.

10. Scott Boen Gibson, Waukegan / Lake Forest attorney. Former partner of child molester Richard S. Kopsick. Gibson pinched Joe Kopsick’s behind, and other children’s behinds, at his pool parties when Kopsick was a child, while yelling “There’s a butt-biter in the pool!”. Former heroin user. Recovering alcoholic.

11. Melodie Gliniewicz, Fox Lake. Widow of Fox Lake police officer Joseph Gliniewicz. Defrauded a children’s charity with her now deceased husband.

12. Kenneth Hasty, Waukegan basketball recruiter. Molested teenage boys, was put on probation, and tried to seduce a 19-year-old boy. His attorney Richard S. Kopsick recommended more probation in 1993, but Hasty was jailed. Two years later, Richard S. Kopsick molested his first born son, Joseph W. Kopsick.

13. Eric Hill, Zion police officer. Shot 17-year-old Justus Howell to death, in the back, while fleeing.

14. Adam Hyde, Lincolnshire police officer. In 2009, interrogated then 22-year-old Melissa Calusinski and coerced her into falsely confessing to murdering 1-year-old Benjamin Kingan.

15. Richard S. Kopsick, Waukegan / Lake Bluff personal injury attorney. Defended child molester Kenneth Hasty in 1993. Molested his oldest son Joey in 1995 and 1996, multiple times. Former friend of attorney Scott Gibson, who pinched Joe Kopsick’s behind and the behinds of other children at his pool parties. Active in the Lake County Democratic Party and the Lake Bluff District 65 school board during the 1990s. President of the Lake County Bar Association for the year of 2004.

16. Sally A. Lichter, Libertyville G.A.L. (Guardian Ad Litem) at Sally Family Law. Commits parental alienation, a/k/a legal kidnapping from parents not proven unfit to care for children. Charges parents tens of thousands of dollars to speak to their children.

17. Lisa Malkov, Lake Bluff police officer. Refused to charge Richard S. Kopsick with molesting his son (despite multiple written statements, precise estimation of dates on which the abuse occurred, explanations as to why physical evidence is not available, and a prosecutor’s admission that it sounds to him like Joe Kopsick’s mother and brother believe him about the abuse).

18. Matt deMartini, Antioch attorney. In 2011, prosecuted Melissa Calusinski alongside his associate attorney Steven J. “Steve” Scheller. Framed Calusinski by failing to produce sufficiently light X-ray evidence showing that the baby who died in Calusinski’s care had previously existing head injuries.

19. David “Dave” Miller, Lake Bluff / Lake Forest theater director. Exchanged sexually charged text messages with boys around the age of 17 years old, and kissed students. May have also had sexual relationships with teenage boys. Reportedly, information about this was suppressed between 2009 and 2020 because Miller’s victims wanted to retain their privacy.

20. Michael Nerheim, Waukegan former State's Attorney of Lake County. Republican. Defeated by Democrat Eric Rinehart in November 2020. Nerheim's office refused to charge Richard S. Kopsick with child molestation. Nerheim urged support of police after the shooting death of 17-year-old Justus Howell, who was shot by police in the back while fleeing.

21. Victor o’Block, Waukegan prosecutor at the Specialized Victims Unit of the Lake County State’s Attorney’s office. Refused to charge Richard S. Kopsick with multiple counts of aggravated criminal sexual abuse against his son Joe Kopsick.

22. Kathleen o’Hara, Lake Bluff / Lake Forest former teacher and principal. Mayor of Lake Bluff since 2007. Screamed at students (including Joe Kopsick) while disciplining them, during her tenure at Lake Bluff Middle School (possibly contributing to an environment in which children would be unlikely to report abuse). Possibly failed to sufficiently bring Diane M. Ross’s child pornography arrest to the community’s attention.

23. Sol R. Rappaport, Libertyville psychiatrist and youth counselor. Recommended Dr. Michael Feld (who had an affair with a client) to Richard S. Kopsick, to treat his son Joe Kopsick, after he began recovering memories of abuse in 2015, and attempted to come forward about his father molesting him in 1995 and 1996.

24. David del Re, Waukegan attorney. Commits parental alienation, a/k/a legal kidnapping from parents not proven unfit to care for children. Works with psychiatrist and youth counselor Sol R. Rappaport.


25. Diane M. Ross, Lake Bluff / Lake Forest English professor at Lake Forest College. Mother of students who were in Lake Bluff schools in the year 2000, when Ross was arrested for sending child pornography over the internet.


26. Joseph V. Salvi, Waukegan judge. Commits parental alienation, a/k/a legal kidnapping from parents not proven unfit to care for children.

27. Steven. J. “Steve” Scheller, Waukegan attorney at Scheller & Burke, L.L.C.. Prosecutor, and former defense attorney. In 2011, prosecuted Melissa Calusinski alongside his associate attorney Matt deMartini. Framed Calusinski by failing to produce sufficiently light and legible X-ray evidence showing that the baby who died in Calusinski’s care had previously existing head injuries. Friend of attorney Richard S. Kopsick, who defended a child molester and molested his own son.

28. Donna-Jo Vorderstrasse, Waukegan judge. Commits parental alienation, a/k/a legal kidnapping from parents not proven unfit to care for children.

29. An adult male in either Lake Bluff or Lake Forest, name unknown, who molested a boy in the 1990s and/or 2000s who attended school in Lake Bluff with Joe Kopsick.

30. A Lake Bluff father, name unknown, who molested and/or raped his daughter, who attended school in Lake Forest with Joe Kopsick.

31. The adult male proprietor of a hookah bar / music venue that used to exist in Waukegan. Name of establishment and proprietor unknown. Sexually abused and/or pimped-out at least three underage girls; in the early 2000s, and probably other instances as well. One of these girls was also victimized by sailors at Great Lakes Naval Base.

32. One or more sailors at Great Lakes Naval Base who committed statutory rape against a girl or girls as young as 12 or 13 years old, some time between the years 1999 and 2002. One of these girls was also victimized by the proprietor of a Waukegan hookah bar.

33. The adult male who molested, or attempted to molest, young boys in the men’s showers of the Lake Bluff park district’s public pool in the 1990s. Name unknown.

34. The proprietors of, and dance instructors at, Model Act Studios, based in Schaumburg and Lemont. Accused of taking parents money for photographs of children, without offering adequate dance instruction to kids; may be a scam to defraud parents for money and/or obtain photos and/or videos of children for illicit purposes. Works with International Modeling and Talent Association (I.M.T.A.) to put on child fashion shows featuring young girls in immodest two-piece swimsuits. May be working with (I.M.T.A.) to find attractive children who can be lured into the entertainment industry.

35. J.B. Pritzker and family (including former Jeffrey Epstein associate Tom Pritzker, J.B.’s cousin). Governor of Illinois, Democrat. The Pritzker family owns the Hyatt Regency “Chicago” (actually in Schaumburg) and the neighboring Hyatt Place in Schaumburg. Sex trafficking has occurred at the Hyatt Regency, and has likely occurred at Hyatt Place as well.

36. The Village of Schaumburg, which owns the Renaissance Convention Center and Hotel in Schaumburg. The Renaissance Convention Center has hosted conventions of Tremaine dance studios, which teaches young girls (and some boys) sexually charged dance routines.

37. The owner(s) of Private Events by Sam and Harry’s in Schaumburg. Located next to the Renaissance Convention Center. Reputed area where sex trafficking has likely occurred (possibly in connection to sex trafficking occurring at the Renaissance).

38. The City of Chicago, which owns o’Hare International Airport in northwestern Chicago (a known human trafficking and sex trafficking site) and Midway Airport in south Chicago (another possible human trafficking site).




Written and published on May 25th, 2021


Saturday, May 15, 2021

Six Locations in Schaumburg, Illinois Where Human Trafficking Is (or May Be) Occurring

     I wrote the following after discovering that sex trafficking and prostitution busts have occurred at hotels in Schaumburg, Illinois, and after discovering that Schaumburg hotels, and dancing and modeling studios, are hosting "dance" events which sexualize children.
     These "dancing and modeling studios" may not be overt schemes to traffic children, but it's possible that they are defrauding the children's parents for money, or even scamming them for cheap photographs and videos of their children, which the operators of the dance studios can sell. An investigation is needed.

     Most of these locations are very close to one another, as well as to a local high school. They are also close to o'Hare International Airport, another major human and sex trafficking hub.
     Parents in the Schaumburg area, and parents of students at Rolling Meadows High School, should be cautioned about what is happening in their community, in regards to the information below.



1. Model Act Studios – Schaumburg

     - Dance studio for children, affiliated with International Modeling and Talent Agency (I.M.T.A.).

     - Accused of taking money for photos, without offering adequate dance instruction to kids.

     - Might be a scam to defraud parents for money and/or obtain photos and videos of children.

     - Sources:

          http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/International_Modeling_and_Talent_Association?fbclid=IwAR1DjFvkDNKxN-y1AHAuq9HG_AGsElmb888hrFMAwL7_1fQMWwRS7vdYf0k

          
http://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=844103332445369

      - Location: 1750 E. Golf Rd., Schaumburg

     - See this location on Google Maps at the following link:

          Model Act Studios - Google Maps
     




2. Model Act Studios – Lemont

      - Location: 115 Stephen St., Lemont

     - See this location on Google Maps at the following link:
          Model Act Studios - Google Maps






3. Hyatt Regency – Chicago / Schaumburg

     - Sex trafficking has occurred here.

     - The Hyatt hotel chain is owned by the family of Illinois Governor J.B. Pritzker.

     - Location: 1800 E. Golf Road, Schaumburg


      - See this location on Google Maps at the following link:

          Hyatt Regency Schaumburg, Chicago - Google Maps






4. Hyatt Place – Chicago / Schaumburg

     - Sex trafficking has likely occurred here.

     - Location: 1851 McConnor Parkway, Schaumburg

     - See this location on Google Maps at the following link:
          1851 McConnor Pkwy - Google Maps

     - Source: Sex trafficking bust at Schaumburg hotels:

          http://www.nbcchicago.com/news/local/3-charged-prostitution-sting-schaumburg-hotels/29266/

     - Source: Jeffrey Epstein court documents mention J.B. Pritzker's cousin Tom
          http://www.chicagotribune.com/politics/ct-pritzker-epstein-blagojevich-peoptone-provident-the-spin-20190812-ny2zvf37qvb53hpfijvfdmcpri-story.html




5. Private Events by Sam & Harry’s

     - Sex trafficking has likely occurred here. Reputed trafficking area.

     - Location: 1551 Thoreau Drive North, Schaumburg (part of the Renaissance Convention Center)

      - See this location on Google Maps at the following link:
          Private Events by Sam & Harry's - Google Maps





6. Renaissance Schaumburg Convention Center

     - Hosts Tremaine dance studios conventions, including the one in winter 2019.
          Source: http://www.tremainedance.com/winter-2021-22/chicago-il/

     - Model Act Studios, and Tremaine dance studios, teach young girls sexually charged dance moves, which they tell the girls are simply "rhythmic gymnastics". The girls are told to be "sassy" while they dance, which is being used as a replacement term for "sexy”. This is done to avoid all chances that the girls will recognize that they are being exploited and objectified by their parents and dancing and modeling instructors.

     - Location: 1551 Thoreau Drive North, Schaumburg

      - See this location on Google Maps at the following link:

          1551 Thoreau Dr N - Google Maps

 






Five of the six locations listed above,
are all within several miles of each other,
and also to the Rolling Meadows High School.






Information collected between March 2021 and April 3rd, 2021

Written on April 3rd, 2021

Edited on May 15th, 2021

Published on May 15th, 2021



 

Wednesday, March 10, 2021

Before Fully Legalizing Sex Work, Stop Lowering the Age of Consent

     The following article was written as advice to the Libertarian Party regarding why its members should stop advocating for the lowering of the age of consent to sexual relations.




     In the mid-2010s, Americans began to notice that teenagers were increasingly being required to register as sex offenders for life; even for the supposed "crimes" of possessing nude photographs of themselves, and of having sex with someone below the age of consent but still very close in age.
     Since then, so-called "Romeo and Juliet" laws, have become more popular. These are exemptions to the statutory rape or age of consent laws, which allow minors close in age, to have sex, without it being considered a crime. The statute typically specifies the age range, and establishes a minimum age to protect young children.
     It's certainly a fair argument that if a 17-year-old and an 18-year-old are dating, then they should be able to have sex without anyone going to jail or registering as a sex offender. It's also a fair argument that teenagers do not belong on sex offender registries, unless they are repeat or violent offenders, or assaulted significantly younger children.
     However, the facts that these arguments hold water, does not mean that every argument criticizing the current state of age of consent laws, holds water. Statutory rape laws may be rigid, but there's a reason for that; especially young children need to be protected.


     In the article from The Appeal which is linked below, the children involved were only 12 and 14 years old. Yet, because the 14-year-old faced sex offender registration, people felt sorry for him. And that's understandable. But from that point, the excuse train just kept on rolling.
     http://theappeal.org/underage-teenager-faces-life-as-registered-sex-offender-for-having-sex-with-underage-girlfriend-55c377ea9729/
     The fact that these children don't belong on a sex offender list with adult criminals, doesn't mean that nobody should suffer any consequences for what they did. These children's parents are treating them as "boyfriend and girlfriend" who should be free to have sex; as such, it is the parents' fault that their children cannot keep their hands to themselves.
     Think about it: The older party was a fourteen-year-old boy, whose parents evidently did not teach him how to avoid having sex with younger children who are incapable of consenting. I will not address the possibility that the girl was, in any way, to blame; not because she's a girl, nor because boys are evil, but because she was the younger party and was therefore vulnerable. The boy's parents should be fined or jailed for failing to teach their son how to respect other children's boundaries.
     Twelve-year-old girls can get pregnant, as some girls begin puberty early. And there are typically other negative consequences associated with having sex at such a young age, including sexual dysfunction, sex addiction, drug addiction, dropping out of school, and difficulty staying employed.
     Minors under age 16 or 17 cannot fully understand these serious negative consequences, and thus cannot make a fully informed decision which takes them into account. Taking too libertine an attitude regarding the protection of children, can have serious effects.


     Romeo and Juliet exceptions and "close-in-age exemptions" have become a popular solution to the rigidity of statutory rape laws. Indiana an Connecticut passed laws like these in 2007. Texas's law passed in 2011.
     When sex offender registration for juveniles became a controversial issue, the Libertarian Party was on the correct side of that issue. For older teenagers, these exceptions helped fix the problem that Libertarians and other Americans had noticed. And that is admirable, on the part of the Libertarians.
     However - evidently unaware that they have already succeeded - the Libertarians have continued to advocate for the lowering of the age of consent to sex. The push to lower the age of consent has worked too well!
     A 2017 U.S. Supreme Court decision caused that change. But before explaining that, it's important to ask, "Is lowering the age of consent really a good idea right now?"


     Take Texas for example. If thirteen-year-olds can already legally have sex in that state, under some circumstances, then lowering the age of consent probably isn't the wisest thing to do.
     There are a number of reforms which could be made to age of consent laws and statutory rape laws, which would protect children, without either limiting adults' freedom, or lowering the age of consent any further.
     These include:
     1) Leaving the law the way it is, and focusing on enforcing it properly (which is probably the most libertarian option);
     2) Increasing the punishments for people who abuse children under 13, or 15 or 16, or both;
     3) Increasing the age of consent to 16 or 17 with no exceptions; and/or
     4) Increasing the age of consent while establishing a sex offender registry that's temporary and for minors only.
     I would recommend that Texas enact the latter three reforms.


     It's correct that we should stop treating minors like adults, when it comes to the legal consequences for their actions. That's because children don't really "choose" their actions, nor do they "decide" carefully in the same way that adults do. Children act on impulse.
     But it does not logically follow, from the fact that minors shouldn't be punished as if they were adults, that we should start treating minors like adults when it comes to sex.
     If you're opposed to putting minors on sex offender registries for life, then why overreact by saying "lower the age of consent"? Why not advocate for the continued registration of teens who commit sex crimes, but put them on a registry that is for minors only? Make it expire when they turn 17 or 18, or at some date that reflects the seriousness of their crime and the vulnerability of the other party involved.
     Why go overboard, when it's unnecessary?
    Lowering the age of consent is not something we should do hastily; not without first checking to see what it is. It is necessary to see what it is, because it keeps changing, based on time and location.


     "The age of consent" is not a fixed thing, and is in constant flux.
     The age of consent to sex changes every few years, in the states, because each state sets its own age, in its own statutes. The national government has an age of consent to sex as well.
     Also, there is so much overlap between "age of consent laws" and "statutory rape laws" that it is difficult to distinguish one category from the other. And both categories affect the laws against human trafficking, child trafficking, and kidnapping (because the victim being young enough means a crime has occurred, and a younger victim means a harsher sentence).
     But most importantly, "the age of consent" is not a single thing. The generic age of consent to sex, the minimum age for sex considering all statutory exemptions, the generic age of consent to marriage, and the minimum age for marriage considering all statutory exemptions, are four different things. Yet each of them could be described as either an "age of consent to sex" or an age of consent to sex within the context of a relationship legalized through a marriage license.

     We have to be clear about what we are talking about, when we say "age of consent". Not only because states sometimes pass exemptions which cause the general state age of consent to stop applying, in certain circumstances; but also because the age of marriage may actually be lower than the age of consent to sex.
     Ten states have even failed to establish any minimum age for consent to marriage. That means the age of consent for marriage, in those states, is effectively zero. Due to exemptions to the marriage laws, which allow judges and/or parents to assent to marriages involving minors, if you can find a couple and a judge who are crazy or stupid or perverted enough, you can marry a baby in those ten states.
     http://aquarianagrarian.blogspot.com/2020/09/child-marriage-is-legal-in-ten-states.html

     Maybe nobody is going to try to marry a baby, so this isn't a problem.
     But on the other hand, we know from recent events that some child molesters know people high-up in government. We can't be sure that nobody will ever try to get away with such a thing. If that happens, there should be a limitation in place, to say "this child is incapable of giving fully informed consent to this marriage contract".
     If our laws do not reflect our values, such as the need to protect vulnerable children who cannot protect themselves, then our civil society is worthless, because it cannot establish basic norms or standards.
     

     Lowering the age of consent was a great position to take... ten or twenty years ago. It would be a great position to take, if "the age of consent" were actually 18 years old, as most Americans assume it is. But it simply isn't true that there is an 18-year age of consent; not nationally anyway. The age of consent is 18, only in a few states.
     As of early 2021, the age of consent was 18 in 12 states, 17 in 7 states, and 16 in 31 states. As of one or two years ago, the most common age of consent was 17, but now it is 16.

     The fact that more states are reducing the age of consent, than increasing it, should not necessarily be taken as evidence that it is the right thing to do. Keep in mind that, in the figures provided above, state statutes regarding exceptions were not taken into account. Each state's laws regarding exceptions to statutory rape laws, vary widely.
     That is why it is difficult to even say "the age of consent in this particular state is this particular age"; there are so many exceptions that it is often hard to keep track of. Especially when state laws on the matter change so often.


     It was not due to the Libertarian Party's legislative efforts that Romeo and Juliet laws were passed. Nor should we blame the Libertarians for failing to notice that the advocates of reforming statutory rape laws, succeeded.
     But we cannot fail to hold those Libertarians accountable who continue to support lowering ages of consent. Some Libertarians - though not all - continue to remain ignorant about the current state of these laws.
     If Libertarians are so interested in the topic, then they should notice what has changed. They should distinguish what the advocates of lowering the age of consent, did right, from what they did wrong. Then Libertarians should start proposing solutions to the parts they got wrong.
     If the Libertarians do not propose any such solutions, then they should not expect to be part of a coalition that enforces those solutions.


     Curiously, what caused the big change in statutory rape laws, that the Libertarians missed, was not an avalanche of states rushing to pass Romeo and Juliet exceptions.
     Instead, it was the decision in the 2017 U.S. Supreme Court case Esquivel-Quintana v. Sessions. Additionally, the subsequent lowering of the age of consent in at least twenty states, to sixteen, which appears to have been done in order to accommodate and apply the Esquivel ruling.

     Attorney General Jeff Sessions lost the government's case against an undocumented immigrant from Mexico who had sex with a 17-year-old female, at a time when it was illegal for him to do so at age 21, according to a California statute. That California statute was ignored, and effectively invalidated, in the 2017 case.
     In June 2017, the Huffington Post reported that, as a result of that Supreme Court decision, twenty states would have to see their ages of consent reduced to sixteen. That's because the immigrant's attorneys appealed to the fact that the generic federal definition of sexual abuse of a minor (which is articulated in 18 U.S. Code Section 2243) specifically references an age of consent to sex, and not to the age of "legal competence". The age of consent to sex is the federal age of sixteen. The age of legal competence therein referred, is eighteen.
     http://www.huffpost.com/entry/supreme-court-unanimously-overrules-statutory-rape_b_592edaede4b017b267edff12
     This ought to teach us why it is important to distinguish age of consent to sex, from age of legal competence (or age of consent to contract) wherever necessary. If I may make a suggestion, for the sake of simplicity, these ought to be set at the same age. Doing that might help prevent a "race to the bottom", in case the federal age of consent gets any lower than it already is.

     The reason why twenty states' ages of consent became 16, rather than 18, as a result of that decision, is because there is no national or "federal" age of consent to sex which is set at 18 years old.
     There has never been such a law. The states currently set their ages of consent between 16 and 18. They do so because they can, and because the federal government hasn't ruled their age of consent statutes unconstitutional yet. There is no national law, currently on the books, which states that states must set their ages of consent between 16 and 18, nor between any other set of ages.
     States could lower their ages at any time, and they can and do pass exceptions. Those exemptions often legalize sex involving people well below 18, and that is why children below 16 are put at risk, whether or not a state were to claim "states' rights" and lower its general age of consent before exemptions to below 16.


     Huffington Post contributor James R. Marsh explains why 18 U.S. Code Section 2243 is at fault for the outcome of this decision: Esquivel-Quintana's attorneys cited this law to justify refraining from deeming the actions of thee accused as sexual abuse of a minor.
     http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Esquivel-Quintana_v._Sessions
     In 18 U.S. Code Section 2243, titled "Sexual abuse of a minor or ward", the law provides that whomever is under U.S. jurisdiction, and "knowingly engages in a sexual act with another person who... has attained the age of 12 years but has not attained the age of 16 years", can be punished.

     This law is referred to as the "generic federal definition" of sexual abuse of a minor.
     It could be argued that this means there is a national age of consent of 16 years old. [However, taking such a stance, would probably require you to argue that state laws establishing a 17-year or 18-year age of consent, are unconstitutional or otherwise invalid.]
     It gets worse, though.

     According to the defenses listed in 18 U.S. Code Section 2243, whomever has sex with someone under 16, but over twelve, might not be guilty of a crime, if they are either married to that person, or they reasonably believed that the person was over 16.
     What does this mean, in effect? If a child aged twelve through fifteen, obtains a fake identification card (a "fake I.D."), and shows it to an adult, then that adult could rape them, and use the fact that they had an I.D. saying they were over 16, to argue that they "reasonably believed that the other person had attained 16 years of age".
     So the "national age of consent" is 16, not 18; and if you have a fake I.D., it's only twelve. Apparently, no criminal consequences can be visited upon someone who rapes a 12- to 15-year-old child who shows them a fake I.D., as long as the rapist is simply aware of the law and its acceptable legal defenses, and doesn't commit any additional crimes in the process.

     It is customary to have the defenses for breaking the law, listed right beneath the law itself. But it is disturbing to think that anyone who looks up this "national age of consent" law, can find what basically amount to instructions on how to use a loophole in the law, right below this very necessary law which is supposed to exist in order to protect children.
     Knowing all of this, it's hard to avoid feeling like the government is instructing child traffickers how to have sex with, an abduct children, legally.
     And in the wake of the Jeffrey Epstein / Alexander Acosta scandal, we should also think about what it means that attorneys, judges, and legislators see that piece of legislation a lot more often than the average American does (and especially more often than the average child who is put in danger by its flaws).
     Do you understand, now, why lowering the age of consent is such a bad idea?
     In case you don't, then yes, it still gets worse! Read on!


     The fact that this national 16-year age of consent law exists at the national level, means that anyone who traffics a child across state lines, is under federal jurisdiction. That means the state cannot prosecute the kidnapper (which is bad), but the federal government can (which is good).
     However, the federal government might not prosecute the kidnapper (which is bad)! It all depends on the age of the victim and the perpetrator.
     Suppose that you live in a state in which the age of consent is 17, and your child is 16 years old, and they've been abducted. If the kidnapper stays within state lines, then state courts can prosecute him, and they will prosecute him under your state's 17-year age of consent law. Naturally, you would prefer that your kidnapper stay close-by, and not leave state lines, because that would make recovering your child very difficult.
     But that's where the federal government comes in. If your child's kidnapper leaves the state with your child, now he's under federal jurisdiction, because he's using the national highway system. And, according to the federal law on "Sexual abuse of a minor", a person who transports a child across state lines, whom is between 12 and 15, and is less than four years younger than the other person involved, has not committed sexual abuse of a minor, and cannot be found guilty of that in federal courts.

     Read closely: "Whoever, in the special maritime and territorial jurisdiction of the United States or in a Federal prison, or in any prison, institution, or facility in which persons are held in custody by direction of or pursuant to a contract or agreement with the head of any Federal department or agency, knowingly engages in a sexual act with another person who- (1) has attained the age of 12 years but has not attained the age of 16 years; and (2) is at least four years younger than the person so engaging; or attempts to do so, shall be fined under this title, imprisoned not more than 15 years, or both."
     The appearance of the word "and", before "(2)", means that both (1) and (2) must be fulfilled, rather than just one or the other. This means that, for a crime to have been committed - simply due to the victim's age, rather than other criminal factors - the victim must be both: 1) at least 12, but not yet 16; and at least four years younger than the kidnapper or rapist.
     In effect, this means that a kidnapper can abduct a child, and take them across state lines for purposes of sex, as long as the child is over 12, and the kidnapper is no more than four years older than the victim. A 16-year-old can kidnap children over 12 and take them across state lines, a 17-year-old can kidnap children over 13, an 18-year-old can kidnap children over 14, and a 19-year-old can kidnap children aged 15. And 16-year-olds can be taken across state lines by anybody, and it's not kidnapping. Unless, that is, other crimes are committed in the process, which obviously indicate that the younger party never consented in the first place (such as evidence of assault).

     Not many Americans, and probably few potential kidnappers, know about these facts. But whether a lot of people know about it, does not change the fact of what we have done, by allowing the Supreme Court to ignore and invalidate the age of consent laws of twenty states.
     We have created a federal incentive program, for kidnappers, to take our children outside state borders.
     We have effectively created this incentive to take kids out of the state, by eliminating the disincentive to stay in the state after abducting the child. That disincentive, which previously existed, was the threat of punishment, by the states, according to their own age of consent and statutory rape laws. In 2017, those laws were invalidated in 20 states, including several of the most populous states in the nation.
     This should demonstrate why it's important to read the law, and to know how to read the law. It could mean the difference between having your child in your arms and never seeing the child again. It could mean the difference between being certain that your child's rape is prosecutable, and having no clue on the matter.


     Age of consent to sex, statutory rape, and intrastate kidnapping, certainly belong under the jurisdiction of the states or the people. Just as interstate kidnapping is rightfully a national or federal issue. But that doesn't mean that the states and the federal government should not coordinate when deciding what those laws should be.
     The wide variation in states' ages of consent - coupled with the many exceptions to those laws - are a complete mess. We would probably see less interstate child trafficking, if kidnappers couldn't simply relocate to a new state, where the age of consent is lower, in order to get away with more legal sex with minors.

     That is why I support a constitutional amendment which would establish a minimum age of consent to sex, marriage, contract, and work, which would be uniform across all states. In my opinion, the age of consent should be set at 17, with a two-year "close-in-age exception" that allows minors aged 15 or older to have sex, without being labeled sex offenders, as long as the other party is below 17.
     A constitutional amendment would avoid objections associated with "states' rights", by making sure to get at least three-fourths of the states' approval, before making such a permanent change to the U.S. Constitution. There may not be constitutional precedent supporting the authority for a national age of consent, but the existence of interstate child trafficking necessitates such laws, and an amendment would delegate that authority properly.

     To include a provision regarding age of contract, or age of legal competence, would also be an important achievement. Without such a law, children could work and marry and have sex and vote in one state, while being able to do none of these things the next state over (which is sometimes as close as just over a bridge). Perhaps some minors could even be legally transported to other states for the purposes of legal prostitution (just as they can legally be transported now, by their parents, to get piercings and tattoos which are illegal for them to get in their home states).
     States' rights have their place, but to continue to have zero consistency whatsoever - concerning whom is allowed to vote, and start a family, and file lawsuits - would constitute a failure to set up the most basic standards necessary for a civil society.

     Emotional maturity, intellectual maturity, reproductive maturity, and economic independence, are not sufficient grounds for either legal sex, marriage, or voting. Maturity matters, but a child who is subjected to sex, must always be presumed to be the vulnerable party, unless and until the other person involved, proves otherwise.
     If economic independence - and emotional, intellectual, and reproductive maturity - were considered to be all a child needs to work, marry, have sex, and enter into contracts, then an adult could pay any child who has begun puberty, for sex, treat them as a legal prostitute, and use that to cite their economic independence. An adult could single-out a child, tell them that they're mature for their age, and use that to justify trying to date them, and starting a sexual relationship with them.
     I wrote about this topic previously, in direct rebuttal of an article written by former Libertarian Party presidential candidate Arvin Vohra, in my January 2018 article "Remove Arvin Vohra from the Libertarian Party". That article can be read at the following link:
     http://aquarianagrarian.blogspot.com/2018/01/remove-arvin-vohra-from-libertarian.html

     Some Americans have heard rumors about there being a 16-year or a 12-year national age of consent (and I hope that this article has helped clarify that question). But few Americans know that ten states currently have no legal barrier to baby marriage.
     Some people do know some of these facts, though; for example, everyone who read the Huffington Post article about Esquivel-Quintana v. Sessions and 18 U.S. Code Section 2243.

     The fact that some people are aware of this problem, is at least part of the reason why Americans are looking at Libertarians like they're crazy - and, as Mark Whitney put it, "the party of pedophilia" - for continuing to advocate for lowering "the" age of consent.
     We already did it!






     Now that we're done celebrating this pyrrhic victory, it's time to rein things back in. It might even be time to raise the age of consent (or at least raise it to 17 everywhere, and get rid of the exceptions that pertain to minors under 15 or 16).



     If we, as Americans, neglect to establish nationwide minimum ages for contract, work, marriage, and sex, then it will be very difficult for many people to accept the full legalization of sex work. Not considering the way state age of consent laws have been weakened over the past five years.

     I believe that the Libertarian Party – and the broader libertarian movement, and the movement to legalize sex work for consenting adults – will never succeed, as long as their proponents neglect to check whether states are establishing adequate and consistent minimum ages for participation in sex work.
     If they do succeed, then it will be because their proponents failed to update themselves on the changing sex laws.
     Libertarians are teaching children who come to their conventions that there is a safe way to do everything. That is not true; there is not a safe way for a child to have sex, nor to use dangerous drugs.
     Many people in the party think it is funny to boo laws against five-year-olds buying heroin. They usually argue that "that doesn't mean the kid is going to use it", or "it's probably for someone else", or even simply "no victim, no crime". But this is simply going into denial; it is letting our guards down through trying to rationalize-away real threats to our children. This will only end in desensitization to pedophile grooming, and tragedy.
     It's not OK to allow drug dealers around our children, and it's not OK to allow children to drink alcohol at a young age. We cannot allow adults to get children hooked on drugs, simply because there's nothing sexual about it, or whatever other bizarre rationalization we might have for turning a blind eye. If you don't put your foot down at some point, some child molester is going to be able to get away with putting his finger up your child's asshole in front of you, and then saying "There's nothing sexual about this, because the anus is for digestion, not sex, according to nature." And you can probably predict which political parties are going to vouch for the people who will make that argument.


     The Libertarian Party must establish itself as "the party of consent", and understand that children are not supposed to be completely free, because they cannot make certain decisions on their own. If the L.P. cannot do that, American society will end up prioritizing children's freedom over children's safety.

     The party needs to distance itself from Nathan Larson, Arvin Vohra, and Walter Block; and defend Mary Ruwart and Roderick Long from accusations of defending pedophilia.
     I wrote about this topic previously, in my March 2020 pamphlet “Understanding Libertarian Pedophilia Scandals”, which can be viewed and downloaded at the following link:
     http://aquarianagrarian.blogspot.com/2021/01/understanding-libertarian-pedophilia.html

     

     The age of consent to contract is one of the cornerstones of civil society. From that principle, proceed the notions that minors under a certain age shouldn't be free to work, marry, or have sex, without the guidance of adults and also the guidance of the law.
     That is why failing to establish consistent standards regarding the ages of consent to sex, marriage, work, and other things, would be a serious misstep.
     I would like to help the members of the Libertarian Party, and other people who oppose punishing minors with serious adult consequences, avoid making that misstep.

     This problem may seem complicated, but it is simpler than it looks. All it takes it having some basic standards, a little bit of political coordination, and the sustained determination it will take to pass a constitutional amendment (which typically takes between six months and seven years).
     That time will be worth it, no matter how long it takes. Our children deserve it.
     To fail to protect children, will also endanger the freedom of adults. Because until children are adequately protected, the sexual freedoms of adults will be sacrificed in the name of protecting children, and children will be treated like adults in the name of freedom and order.
     Look around you; at the law, at parents, at the schools, and in our culture and in the media. It has already begun.



Originally Written on March 8th, 2021

Edited and Expanded, and Originally Published,
on March 10th, 2021

Tuesday, March 9, 2021

The Right to Remain Innocent: Insisting That "Nothing Children Do is Sexual" Puts Kids in Danger


Table of Contents

1. 
Introduction: "Nothing Kids Do is Sexual" is False

2. Grooming, Denial, and Desensitization

3. Saying "Nothing Kids Do is Sexual" is Dangerous

4. When "Letting Kids Be Kids" Puts Children in Danger

5. Children's Freedoms: What Are They?

6. Author's Notes




Content



1. Introduction: "Nothing Kids Do is Sexual" is False

      Many people seem to agree that “nothing children do is sexual”. That is a perfectly reasonable position, if by that, they mean “nothing children do should be sexually arousing to adults”.

     However, “sexual” and “sexually arousing” are not the exact same thing. There is certainly some overlap, but only when, and because, people fail to properly articulate the difference between them. "Sexually arousing" is more specific than "sexual", by which I mean "having to do with (i.e., pertaining to) sexuality, sexual attraction, or the genitals / reproductive system".
     I bring up the fact that children have sexual urges, and masturbate, in order to demonstrate that the idea that “nothing children do is sexual” is patently false.

     Children exploring themselves in the privacy of their own rooms, is fine. But it is, no doubt, sexual; because what they are doing pertains to their sexual organs / genitalia. 
     
But to point out that children's sexual self-exploration is sexual, is not the same thing as stating that it is sexually arousing, or should be sexually arousing. The act of noticing that children have sexual urges, does not, by itself, sexualize children. If it did, then medical science itself could be described as sexualizing children.
     I do not bring up children's sexual urges, in order to justify sexual activity between children and adults. Nothing could justify that. I bring up the fact that children have sexual urges in order to explain that it is possible for children to "do something sexual". This is to say that it is possible for children to be introduced to sex, sexual content, and sexual context - and possible for them to be traumatized by sexual activity - regardless of their age.
      The idea that “nothing kids do is sexual” is false, because we know that children masturbate, and we know that minors have sexual fantasies.

    Children have these feelings and do these things, and we should be able to admit these facts without  “sexualizing” children, and also without being said to have sexualized children when we have not.
     The only people who want to pretend that "sexual" and "sexually arousing" aren't different things, are people who want to confuse us into thinking that anyone and everyone who points out that a child is being objectified, is perverted themselves.
     They want us to be scared into refraining from even talking about the subject of child sexual abuse, which has the effect of guaranteeing that children will never be rescued from abusive situations. This is the so-called "conspiracy of silence" which has loaned its name to the title of a documentary about child sexual abuse.




2. Grooming, Denial, and Desensitization

     It seems that some people are so unwilling to admit that kidnapping and child rape are as serious and widespread the problems as they are, that they have become defensive, and are in denial about the dangers which children face.

     They are in denial about the fact that the way some parents are leading and expecting and conditioning their children to behave, is excessively focused on their appearance, hygiene, dress, and/or make-up. Rewarding the child for looking "cute" or "pretty" or "attractive" too much, can have the effect of "grooming" the child to accept unwanted touching or flirtation. So can conditioning a child to kiss you too often in order to get what they want.
     Sometimes, parents' direction or negligence can even condition children to casually accept touching from adults, when that touching should be recognized as flirting.

     Parents reinforce children's complicity in grooming when they coach their children to look attractive at work, or tell the child to "kiss the cop's ass a little bit" if they are pulled over for a moving violation.     Many such girls are unaware that simply dressing attractively at the job site can attract uninvited flirtatious attention. This is not to blame the women, though; bosses want things this way.
     If the child voices any objection to being groomed (or being conditioned to accept grooming, which is often indistinguishable from grooming itself), the parent rationalizes their concerns away, and makes it clear that the child must learn to accept that people judge them instantly based on their appearance. Parents act as if the fact that many people are judgmental, justifies conditioning girls to devote huge amounts of their attention, time, and money, to their appearances; and to dress attractively at their first jobs.
     Not voicing objection to these behaviors, is thus the price children are learning to pay, for receiving accolades in school and other opportunities.



     It's very sad and disturbing that I actually have to write the next few sentences. It says something about the times in which we're living.
     
But if parents can make their kids dance in a cage, or grind on a stripper pole – and it's supposedly not child molestation – then what would these parents do, if they actually witnessed an adult touching their child's genitals?
     

     Breasts, armpit hair, and pubic hair are not the genitalia, but they are secondary sex characteristics. If some adult is making jokes about your kid's pubic hair, and won't stop, then you need to stop rationalizing and denying, and keep your child away from that person. And you should certainly not allow your child to perform for that person, nor take artistic direction from them.
     The mere fact that they are not directly talking about your kid's actual penis or vagina itself, should not put you at ease. If we keep saying "Nothing kids do is sexual", then the next thing we know, we'll be saying "Touching children's breasts, armpits, and feet is not sexual."
     These are the consequences of letting possible child rapist Bill Clinton teach our children that oral sex is not sex.


     To put it bluntly: "Nothing kids do is sexual, because children are by definition innocent and not sexual?" Wouldn't that imply that a child can disrobe, or even masturbate, in front of strangers, and it's automatically not sexual, because it's a child?
     If nothing kids do is sexual, then by that logic, someone could molest them, and it wouldn't be sexual.
     
If sexual means "pertaining to sex" instead of "arousing", then "Nothing kids do is sexual" is clearly false.
          If you touch a child's genitals, it will elicit something resembling a sexual response. The fact that a sexual response is triggered, does not always mean that the touching is desired. This would be like if a woman told a man "I know I didn't take advantage of you because you had an erection." As Oprah has explained, child sex predators will often subject their victims to pleasurable touch in order to confuse them into thinking that they liked it and consented.
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dmitting that the child will feel the touching as something sexual, is not admitting attraction to children; it is admitting that a child can be traumatized by sexual touching even if the child has not yet entered puberty.


     Children are capable of being exploited sexually, because children have genitals. The fact that they experience sexual feelings does not make it OK for adults to abuse them, nor does the fact that they have genitals.
     But in this new way of "thinking", to notice that there is something sexual about an adult touching a child's genitals - or about a child grabbing his crotch while dancing like Michael Jackson in front of thousands of people - would itself be perverted. Almost as if to molest a child at a young enough age, would remove all sexual context from the act, and maybe even all possibility of sexual gratification or arousal, on the part of both the adult and the child's, as well. This is obviously not true.
     
This line of twisted logic is nothing but pedophile-enabling grooming which is intended to desensitize us to child sexual abuse and confuse us about at what age it is possible for sexual activity to traumatize a child. It is possible at all ages.
     Some parents attempt to rationalize-away the idea that they should do something about the abuser. The Talmud makes numerous excuses for raping girls under three years old, using the same kind of twisted logic (about how the injury will go away, and how it's as if it never happened).
     
But it doesn't matter if the child forgets the abuse, or physically recovers from it. The child may still recover the memory later in life. Sometimes the trauma will fester subconsciously for years before those memories are recovered, causing the child all sorts of unexplainable suffering.
     We are not a civilized society as long as we continue to cling to "logic" that could someday lead us to conclude that "your child wasn't raped, because he was too young for anything sexual to be able to happen to him."

     These lines of twisted logic are nothing but pieces of pedophile-enabling grooming propaganda, which are intended to desensitize us to child sexual abuse, and confuse us about at what age it is possible for sexual activity to traumatize a child, and for sexual context or content to be introduced to children. It is possible at all ages.
     To insist that “nothing children do is sexual” too steadfastly, is to ignore, and consciously deny, all reasonable objections to placing children in what any rational person should be able to recognize as sexual contexts and sexual situations.


     Some adults have paraphilias ("kinks") for certain body parts, such as feet, armpits, and pubic hair. Understanding this is crucial to being able to detect when a potential child molester is fixated on some (supposedly) "non-sexual" body part of your child (or someone else's child), and to understanding how a non-sexual body part can be sexualized by someone with a perverted mind.
     Nickelodeon writer Dan Schneider has a foot fetish. He was filmed, on the set of iCarly, dragging teen actress Jennette McCurdy by her feet.
     Schneider snuck foot-related sketches and jokes into his shows for years undetected. Some people who know about Schneider have even surmised that Nickelodeon's foot logo (seen below) is some sort of veiled reference to Schneider's foot fetish.



     In fact, Dan Schneider's writing - and the acting of another pedophile named Brian Peck - have provided Nickelodeon's child audience with years of "immature gross-out comedy desigend for kids" which is actually cleverly-concealed humor based on child grooming.
     
McCurdy has now gone public about this, quit acting, and published a book about her exploitative mother.

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     Proceeding from the idea that we should “let kids be kids”, what now dictates whether a child is being molested, is the child's ability to recognize the behavior as sexual, rather than whether the adult is touching the child for the adult's own purposes of sexual gratification.
     As long as the child's parents are capable of denying – and rationalizing-away – the problematic, hypersexualizing, exploitative nature of what they are teaching their child to do, then nobody else gets to criticize the parents' final decision. This is excused on the grounds that, if a parent is legally considered the child's guardian, then there is probably some actual active guarding going on. That would be a misguided assumption to make.

     We cannot continue putting the responsibility on children (most of whom don't even know what sex is yet) - instead of the parents - to recognize that something that's happening to them, is sexual. Yet that is what we are doing, each time we say “let kids be kids” to people who are only warning us that we are putting our children in harm's way.
     Parents should be jailed for repeatedly allow their children to be near, or be seen by, someone whose intentions are sexual.





3. Saying "Nothing Kids Do is Sexual" is Dangerous


     The Democratic Party, which once exalted itself as the party that cares about children, and the party of “it takes a village to raise a child”, has emphasized improving children's health and freedom from work at the expense of increasing children's safety from sexual predators. The Democrats have become distracted, by their lust for power, from the need to protect children. And, in some cases (Joe Biden, Bill Clinton, probably the Podesta brothers, etc.), their lust for actual children themselves.
     The Left used to consistently criticize the exploitation of children, though. Friedrich Engels, for example, called to an end to child exploitation, in the workplace and elsewhere. Some communists believed that communal raising of children could reduce child abuse; it would at least reduce the rates of abuse by the child's own biological parents.
     But now, with the rise of the deliberately transgressive social "values" of the Left (whose values have been poisoned by the neoliberals who run the Democratic Party) the Left's concern for children's welfare has largely dissipated, outside of their need for education and health services. Being concerned about children's physical safety, and right to remain unmolested, is, by and large, considered a "fringe" issue, or even a "conspiracy theory".


     As a result of this distraction, it is now deemed “bullying” to criticize parents who let their children dress inappropriately, or dance in manners which could be perceived as provocative, in public. If you don't want children to dance on stripper poles or in cages for adults' entertainment on TLC's Toddlers and Tiaras – and you talk about it on the internet – then you are “bullying” the child who you think is being exploited.
     “Shame on you, that kid might commit suicide!” Ridiculous, isn't it? If the child commits suicide, it's not going to be because people are criticizing their parents' decisions; it's going to be because the child is being treated like an object by its parents in the first place. A child whose parents care more about the possibility that the child's actions will lead to more money and attention for the parents, than about their child's dignity and honor, is being bullied by its parents.

     Children are usually not the ones who decide to put revealing or provocative photos or videos of themselves onto the internet; it is usually done under the parents' direction, management, and "supervision". But even when the parent is not directing the child to do these things, the parent still gave them access to the phone, and probably set up the account for their child. It's the parents who are at fault, not the children. That goes even when the child is the one who "decides" to post photos or videos; because children cannot make these decisions on their own.
     Most people understand that, but the idea that there are some things that children can do which parents' approval would never make acceptable.

     When parents objectify their children on the internet, they are not thinking about the bad things that could result from broadcasting photos and videos of their children, when they are at awkward stages of their life, and are still unable to give fully informed consent to the publication of photos and videos of them which they may regret later.
     Parents who use television shows or social media sites to display their children's bodies, for people they know are looking at them with intent of sexual gratification, are putting their children at risk of kidnapping by those people, and they are ignoring the possibility that their child could become a star, only to become addicted to drugs, or even die at a young age.
     I know that that is the worst-case scenario, but the fact that Jeffrey Epstein and his financiers have had ties to the fashion and beauty pageant industries, means that several industries which capitalize on girls' and young women's beauty, could potentially put unwitting females at risk.
     Not many mothers, who run their children's Instagram or TikTok accounts, seemed to know that just a few years ago.
     But after nine straight years of major sex crime busts at Disney, and grooming scandals involving men at Nickelodeon, it now seems appropriate to conclude that most mothers still trying to get their kids into the entertainment industry, know about these dangers, but simply don't care. To them, child actors are their children's competitors; not people who need to be protected.


     These days, we are not free to object to any level of child exploitation or child objectification, no matter how obvious. Only if a child is fully naked, dancing for money, is it deemed child exploitation.
     Nowadays, a bunch of adult males can get together at a bar, to watch a preteen boy dress in a belly-shirt, dance to Gwen Stefani (while impersonating Gwen Stefani, and lip-syncing to her singing about being just a girl), and nobody gets to say anything.
     As long as the boy doesn't take his clothes off, and there's no stripper pole, and nobody's throwing money at him, then he must not technically be a stripper, and there cannot possibly be anything wrong with what's happening.
     Does this sound like an exaggeration, or a stretch? Well, sadly, I didn't make that up. A boy who calls himself “Desmond is Amazing” did this in Brooklyn in 2019. His parents suffered no consequences, aside from a visit from New York Child Protective Services, and comments from some “haters” who evidently had the good sense to tell them that they're exploiting their child.

     The same boy can even dress as David Bowie, even though Bowie once raped a 13-year-old girl. Child actresses and girl singers can dress up as David Bowie for Halloween, and wear David Bowie T-shirts. Yet nobody seems to notice, and nobody seems to care, that kids the same age as groupies whom Bowie would probably try to rape, now idolize Bowie.
     
Parents of girls who become David Bowie fans should tell their daughters that David Bowie raped either three or four girls between the ages of thirteen and sixteen years old, or else they should stop letting their daughters listen to child rapists, and not tell them the reason until they're old enough to understand.


     The fact that Desmond danced without a stripper pole was enough to allay most readers' worries. But even when there is a stripper pole present, all the warnings on Earth are no match for a modern parent's denial.
     In recent years, several mothers have danced with their daughters on stripper poles, and posted videos of it on the internet. When they received the inevitable backlash -  people criticized them for introducing their very young daughters to exotic dancing - they argued “It's just a dancing pole!”.
     Sadly, the age of the girl involved in the article below, was just three years old or younger.


     But it's not only dancing onstage half-naked, and on poles, that is off-limits, as far as criticizing parenting decisions goes. Kids can also use ketamine with adults now!
     “Desmond is Amazing” was only nine years old when he said “Everyone can do drag” and then explained how it's totally normal for a nine-year-old boy to snort ketamine (which was widely considered a date-rape drug until just five to ten years ago) with adults who are covered in kabuki-style pancake makeup!


     In 2019, I became aware that a child singer, who was then aged 15, was allowing people in the audience to touch her hands and forearms during her concerts. These audience members were not only children, but also adult males.
     This child singer got her first tattoo on her forearm in 2019, at age 15, and was allowing grown men to caress her forearms, where the tattoo was located.
     Also, the smell of alcohol was in the air, because the concert took place in a bar, and both children and adults were present. Additionally, when the singer took breaks to go off-stage, the music that played over the speakers was rap music that contained curse words. I heard a young woman complain to someone else that there were children in the room while the speakers were playing vulgar rap lyrics.
     Evidently, the fact that this girl wasn't doing all of the things that strippers do (like take their clothes off), is enough to justify allowing her to do some of the things that strippers do (like dance in front of adults).
     The audience should have asked themselves the following question: "Wait, adult men can caress 15-year-old girl singers on stage, but they can't touch adult women whose job it is to take their clothes off for money!?"
     This is not just a matter of me "reading too much into it". Adult men now have a place they can go, if they want to touch children on stage without getting to know their parents and asking if it's OK first. This should not be acceptable, yet it is accepted, because we accept everything now. We do this because accepting the way things are, is easier than changing things, and accepting it makes you feel like you're being tolerant, and makes you want to pat yourself on the back.
     It's a bullshit line of logic, it puts children at risk, and it's the reason why society's problems are getting worse.




4. When "Letting Kids Be Kids" Puts Children in Danger

     The idea that “nothing kids do is sexual” is supported by the equally fallacious notion that “letting kids be kids” means we should let them remain completely innocent, or as innocent as possible, about sexual matters, and about the sexual intent which other people might have, regarding them.
     We are saying "letting kids be kids", and letting kids walk or bike unattended to the corner store, wishing for the old days when we didn't have to worry about them getting abducted. And then we still let them go to the corner store. We pretend that nothing has changed. This is a deliberate confusion of reality with fantasy; yet people who say parents should watch their children more, are regarded as the ones who are living in a fantasy world.

     It's not that kids need to be told specific things about sex at a young age; they don't. All I'm saying is that many kids are told not to talk to strangers, and are told to beware of kidnappers, but aren't told exactly why. Some kids don't make the connection that most kidnappers want sex; some kids simply assume that kidnappers want ransom money from the parents.
     Kids, at the very least, deserve to know that kidnappers want to rape or molest them, or, at least, that, in general, they probably want to do something that involves unwanted sexual touching or violation that they will not enjoy. Children deserve a “good touch vs. bad touch” talk, they eventually need to be told that they are more likely to be abused by someone they know rather than by a stranger, and they deserve to be taught the accurate names for their genitals (so that people can't easily use secret names for genitals and sexual acts to trick kids into keeping those activities a secret).


     If “let kids be kids” means “let kids wear whatever they want when they're swimming” - or “let kids play outside in their underwear or bathing suits, and if someone is watching, then they're a creep, and it's not the kids' fault, and they shouldn't have to cover up” - then that's fine.
     But people who say “let kids be kids” to justify silencing people who are criticizing parents' exploitation of children and children's images, are off-base.
     If you want to "let kids be kids", then that needs to with taking at least the bare minimum of reasonable steps to ensure that they are adequately informed about the dangers of kidnappers; and also to guarantee that they will not come near, nor be seen by, nor perform for, people who may not respect their children for any reason aside from the monetary and sexual value which can be extracted from them.

     Criticizing parents for “displaying their children in public” would be creepy and unfounded. But if the “public” in which the parent is displaying the child, is the “public” that's on the internet, or in the entertainment industry, then the parent might be doing it for profit.
     That might point to the possibility that the child doesn't really want to be dancing, modeling, singing, doing gymnastics, swimming (or whatever they're doing), and that the parent is pressuring them.
     A parent who would pressure a child to do something, so that the parent can take pictures and put them on the internet, is a parent who probably doesn't care whether the child would object, or will regret it when the child becomes an adult.
     Such a parent might even be the type to directly condition a child to do things they know are inappropriate or uncomfortable for attention or money, or even actively sexually abuse or assault a child.
     This is not difficult to imagine as something that is widespread, if you consider how many mothers of girls allow them to drink alcohol and/or have sex with their boyfriends "so that they're not out having sex somewhere where they're not safe."
     Despite such mothers posing as "cool" or "liberal" - and rationalizing that they wish they'd had such freedom as children (the operative word here being "children) - they are actually endangering their daughters. We should also be wondering how many mothers allow their daughters to have sex in their own houses because they plan to seduce their daughters' boyfriends.
     Mothers need to stop worrying about trying to be their daughters' friends. Believe it or not, it is possible to parent a child too liberally.


     Parents' denial about the possibility that they are exploiting their children, has caused these types of twisted logic to emerge, surrounding the old adages of "let kids be kids" and "nothing kids do is sexual".
     These sayings used to promote and protect the innocence of children, but have now been turned on their heads, by pedophile enablers who want us to lower our guards.
     Take "Nothing children do is sexual" for example. This phrase means that means that children are, by definition, sexually innocent, so nothing they do should be perceived as sexual. And that is a fine idea that makes plenty of sense. But if this saying is kept short, and never elaborated upon, then it will remain not descriptive enough, and confusing.

     Because there are many mothers who steadfastly believe that absolutely nothing children do should ever be interpreted as sexual in any way, it is now impossible to warn mothers that their child is being sexualized, groomed, or sexually exploited or objectified.
     Thanks to these new lines of "logic" surrounding "Nothing children do is sexual" and "Let kids be kids" it's almost as if noticing that children are being exploited sexually, is a more heinous crime than if you were to actually exploit or abuse the child yourself. The parents' denial will always reign supreme over the objections of others.
     Now, the idea that “nothing children do is sexual” is being used to pretend that any and all people who criticized the exploitation must have been perverted enough to see something sexual in what the child did, in order to be “bothered” enough to criticize it.
     Basically, if you think a child is being exploited for their appearance, or otherwise being put on display for adults, then you're the pervert. Because “Who else, except a pedophile, would notice the sexual undertones which I didn't detect?”

     You did detect them, though. In fact, you willfully ignored, rationalized, and downplayed those sexual undertones away.
     Are these mothers really saying that they had absolutely zero sexual intent when they taught their five-year-old daughters to dance in a tight costume inside of a cage? Do they really think a person would have to be a pedophile to predict that instructing a little girl to perform a dance full of pelvic thrusts, for a room full of adult strangers, could potentially elicit reactions of sexual arousal in people who might be in attendance for the wrong reasons?
     These women know exactly what they are doing. They do it because they know that pedophile alpha males rule the world, and they will do whatever it takes to be materially comfortable in that world. And, of course, objecting to their child's exploitation would end that material comfort very quickly.



5. Children's Freedoms: What Are They?


     There has developed a sort of licentious acceptance, and apathy, about child abuse, which enables parents to continue to sexually exploit their children, as long as it is done for the sake of the child's "prospects" (as I have explained), or else for the sake of the child's ability to “express himself”.
     So now a kid taking his shirt off and shaking his ass for adults at a gay pride parade, while people film it and then upload it to the internet without getting the child's and parents' permission first - isn't “exploitation”, nor in any way inappropriate. Now it's “self-expression”!
   Is a kid shaking his ass for adults? [For example, minor children who dance at gay pride parades.] Do you have a problem with it? Well, now it's “self-expression", which is protected free speech.
     As dance, it could even be spun as artistic: “If you object to it, then I can't help that you have 'tastes in art' which are different from mine.” Or worse, as something patriotic: "If you don't want me to let my child twerk next to grown gay men, then you are a fascist who is trying to take away my First Amendment rights."

     Children's freedom no longer consists in the right to remain innocent, and in the right to play without being endangered. Children's freedom now only consists in children's freedoms to act like adults (while adults get infantilized); more specifically, to look more like how American culture's stereotypes of what good, patriotic, compulsive-purchasing hypermasculine and hyperfeminine adults tell them how to look.
     Our society is suffering from apathetic acceptance and normalization of child exploitation. It is through this normalization, that other parents become desensitized to noticing child exploitation, and become unable to tell the difference between a child who's being exploited, and one who's not. Eventually, the parent may simply stop responding when the child objects to what the parent is instructing the child to do, or the parent will stop caring that the child is objecting.
     The parent will override the child's objection, instead of doing what they should be doing, which is giving the child veto power over all situations which the child is even remotely worried about their safety being compromised. There is no point in screaming at your kid, telling him he's safe, if he is freaking out and crying and panicking and saying no.
     Many people will read the preceding passage, and conclude that this means that I want children to be able to refuse to eat broccoli and take baths, or even that I want children to make decisions that override their parents. Nobody could reach this conclusion except for a pedophile, a pedophile enabler, or a person who is in extreme denial. Any reasonable person will understand that I not talking about some imaginary sort of children's freedom from being given adequate nutrition if they don't "consent" to it; but rather, I 
am talking about physical safety, and safety from sexual predation and grooming.


     A parent who accepts child exploitation, thus cares nothing of the child's lack of ability to give informed consent without an adult's guidance. Or else the parent deems whatever minimal level of attention they given their child, “guidance” and “supervision”, making it OK for the child to drink, dance, smoke, swear, or even take drugs, “as long as an adult is watching them”.
     Well, excuse me, but since when does an adult watching you, necessarily make you safer? Remember Desmond is Amazing, dancing in a bar, near where alcohol was being served? Those adults were watching him pretty closely. But as long as they're watching him, then he's being supervised, right? Wrong! Many of those men were only watching his body so that they could jack off to the memory of him later.


     Just as Desmond's mother is doing to him, some women seem to be conditioning their daughters to be nothing more than objects intended for men's entertainment and viewing. But as long as these mothers can pass off their daughters' activities as “dancing”, “rhythmic gymnastics”, “ballet”, or “just having fun making videos on the internet”, then no man can criticize it.
     Some women even seem to take personally, the fact that many of the people criticizing these “parenting” decisions, are men.
     In the midst of this recent battle to stop the sexualization and exploitation of children on the internet (as well as the hyperfeminization and early feminization of young girls), two traditional ideas have taken hits: 1) the idea that growing up with at least one woman and one man in or nearby their household is essential to raising a well-rounded child; and 2) the idea that fathers deserve to have equal input regarding how their kids are raised (unless they have committed spousal abuse or child abuse).
     And spousal abuse must be punished. But we must not punish spousal abuse instead of ending the demonization of poor divorced fathers, and fathers who were wrongly accused of abusing their kids. We must not prosecute spousal abuse instead of ending the demonization of fathers who are trying to warn people that their child's mother, teacher, priest, coach, dance instructor, child modeling photographer, or anybody else, might be trying to groom or objectify their kid, or expose them to sexual material or conversation.
     We must repeal the 1994 Clinton crime omnibus bill, which was penned by the current President Joe Biden, because it took nearly twenty different types of guns out of the hands of American mothers (and fathers alike), while the Violence Against Women Act (a portion of the 1994 crime bill) promised women a form of protection which has proven itself far inferior to having a man to protect the house: the administration of a Social Security and child support system that makes fathers pay ransom to the state in order to see their children.


     The silencing of men who oppose child exploitation, has at least four negative consequences. These include the following:
     1) men, whom have historically caused most of the exploitation of females, are now being discouraged from voicing an objection to that exploitation, when a man speaking out would represent a “sea change” on the issue of gender relations;
     2) it puts all of the responsibility on women to criticize other parents, when women are already shouldering most of the burdens of parenting;
     3) the exploitation and abuse of children has become more difficult to detect and call-out when it is perpetrated by women; and
     4) the issue of men losing custody, is being ignored, which is extremely dangerous because removing a man from the household removes the member of the household whom is most capable of defending the family from the state (and from its possible attempts to take custody of children without cause).


     This insanity has got to end.

     Today's kids and young adults are being pushed through an amoral machine that's designed to turn them into either: 1) submissive wage-slaves who are effectively whores due to the way they are being objectified at work; 2) people with no skills, save for dancing like horny idiots; 3) outright child sex slaves and child prostitutes; or else 4) people who sell their children into prostitution.

     Child exploitation does not increase solely through exploitation on the job site, nor solely at the hands of government. It also increases due to lax social mores, which can be exacerbated by economic stressors.
     Sadly, the way this often manifests, is that unemployed parents are telling their kids to go to work, when the parents should be mature and stable enough to retain employment and make that sacrifice for their child (who risks dangers and unwanted flirting at the workplace).
     Economic stress and child exploitation both become rampant when those who have the most skills and the most control over the means of production, strategically withhold skills, education, and opportunities, from teenagers and young adults (any of whom might lose control of their life, and then resort to potentially dangerous sex work as a last-ditch effort to pay the bills).


     That is why we must fight child exploitation and child objectification on the economic front, the political front, and the social front alike. And we must teach our children that the sex trade is not always dangerous, and not always shameful, but can become dangerous or shameful quickly if they go into it without being cautious, realistic, and prepared to defend themselves.

     Take off the blinders. These behaviors are problematic. Noticing that they're problematic, isn't perverted, nor is it obscene. Noticing that children have sexual urges isn't obscene. What would be obscene, would be to fail to do something about the numerous widely condoned and legal forms of exploitation of children (in addition to the blatantly illegal forms of physical and sexual abuse of children).



     We have got to stop “shooting the messenger”, and shouting “pervert”, when people speak up about children who have no idea that they're being exploited for adults' sexual gratification; children whose guardians have abdicated their roles as protectors of their children's lives and innocence. They have not protected their children's innocence; but rather, their right to remain ignorant.

     There is no way we are going to be able to consider doing things like legalizing sex work for adults, nor establishing minimum ages for working and being party to contracts, until we establish and spread basic social mores which would limit adults' abilities to interact with children, based on an understanding that all adult-child interactions carry with them an extraordinarily high risk that intimidation will occur (whether intentional on the part of the adult or not).
     Otherwise, no child will be able to get even remotely famous or successful at an early age, without becoming objectified or exploited by adults. This is tragic, because, often, lack of financial independence is what causes children (and usually their mothers, as well) to become susceptible to child abuse.

     If wives and daughters do not achieve sufficient financial dependence from abusive fathers without risking becoming dependent upon bosses or welfare checks in a way that makes them susceptible to unwanted advances in the workplace, then girls will begin to grow up directly from children, up into strippers. This will happen so early and become so common, that it will become a part of our culture, which nobody can criticize, because everyone is doing it.
     
This is peer pressure. This is group sacrifice of children, for the sake of demonic, public, ritual child sexual abuse. Children will never learn that being exploited on stage - or getting exploited in fields aside from entertainment - is unacceptable, until their parents learn that it is unacceptable first.

     This process has already taken root in Japan, where grown men can come to leer at prepubescent girls as they sing on stage, preparing to become pop music stars.

     http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JywMhWnOQqk

     http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0df7k__KEHw

     And as you can tell by the stories above (about Desmond, and the 15-year-old child star with the tattoo who let adults touch her on stage, whom I mentioned), it is happening here in America as well.


     We must teach children that "drawing on themselves" with semi-permanent tattoos, permanent tattoos, and piercings at young ages – and dancing for adults, especially near where alcohol is being served – are not things to be proud of. Nor are they things that children should be able to decide by themselves. Nor, even, are they activities that a parent's approval and permission could ever make acceptable.
     
We must teach them that these prohibitions are not to be cruel or harsh on them, but to keep them safe from adult predators who get off on seeing children mature too fast.

     Considering how few American parents are well-educated about the problem of sexual predators in our government, parents might not even be able to offer sufficient guidance, in a way that leads to a decision which acknowledges the child's dignity and the child's right to remain innocent.
     
If a child insists that getting a tattoo or a piercing will help make them "cool", the parent usually doesn't consider whether the child is choosing a painful form of "self-expression" out of a misplaced desire to commit acts of self-harm.
     
By this, I mean to say that some people who get piercings and tattoos, do so because they are socially acceptable forms of self-harm. There is a French saying that translates to "you must suffer in order to be beautiful."
     H
owever, the kind of people I'm talking about might never guess that they are doing it to themselves because they are struggling with suppressed memories of trauma or abuse. They might never consciously think "I want to take the power to harm myself into my own hands", but they might do it anyway.
     
By getting artistic works imprinted onto themselves, which can serve as beautiful calls for help, they can draw positive attention to themselves. Unfortunately, though, this only feeds the cycle of self-abuse; as the person's need for positive attention is satisfied, but for the wrong reason, while the very real self-harm (minor though it is) is being ignored as a sign of desire to self-harm. We would be foolish to assume that there exist no minors who experience the same thing.
     Moreover, sex traffickers have been known to "tag" or mark the people they traffic, with tattoos. It is a sad state of affairs when some people are getting painful tattoos to help them heal from sexual abuse, while other people are getting tattooed because they're getting taken as some pimp's or sex trafficker's property.

     No parent could possibly understand - let alone convey to their children - all the possible negative consequences which could result from getting a tattoo, getting pregnant, or having sex at an early age. The child can't be "guided" to the right decision, if the parent can't even warn the child of all the potential negative consequences.
     
That's why adults need to work together to craft laws that protect children, while respecting the freedoms of adults, and confer an adequate amount of freedom upon children at the same time.
     So why are we allowing certain states to go on having no minimum age for marrying and tattooing as long as a parent and/or a judge says it's okay? Whose freedom does that promote?


     It's not that kids should be ashamed of doing these sorts of things, necessarily. They certainly shouldn't be bullied for it, anyway.
     But, to the point, it's their parents who guided them into those bad decisions. The parents should recognize that they are exposing their children to risks such as kidnapping and objectification, and the parents should be punished – not the kids – while the kids should be told that their parents instructed them to do something that was wrong, selfish, and potentially suggests mental illness.

     We must teach children - and parents as well - that painting children up like whores at young ages, and making careers out of looking pretty for adults and doing little else, are not dignified. The fact that many people consider sex work to be less shameful than other professions we could name, does not mean that teenage girls should be taught that they should start getting ready to become prostitutes when they are still in high school.


     There are some decisions that no children are mature enough to make; not even with a parent's guidance, and a judge's permission. This includes marriage, pregnancy, driving, drinking, taking drugs, and getting tattoos and intimate piercings (and, arguably, getting any piercings at all).
     Getting tattoos, before you're old enough to make long-term decisions about what permanent marks will be on your skin, is not glamorous. A girl should not look like a piece of luggage that's been shipped around the world before she's eighteen years old.

     Reducing yourself to little more than a work of art may seem glamorous. But to do this to yourself is an act of self-objectification. The fact that you do it to yourself, is not “empowering”, and it does not power away from anybody.
     It just allows you to reduce yourself to the level of an object, saving those who wish to objectify you, the expense, of having to start that process by themselves (which they do by grooming you, noticing things you're sensitive and self-conscious about, and making you vulnerable to flattery about your appearance).


     Tattooing is not just "drawing on yourself", it involves the act of allowing an adult to cause you pain for money. Old people should not be looking down at permanent artwork on their bodies, fifty years from now, thinking "I got that before I was old enough to consent to anything life-altering or permanent or painful" (all three of which tattooing is).
     Piercing and tattooing involve danger because they involve direct infliction of pain. Adults - who are, on average, larger, stronger, and more mature than children - have a responsibility to protect children from dangerous decisions, because are not wise enough to protect themselves.
     Unfortunately, we are approaching a point at which adults are not wise enough to protect children; or at least have willfully abdicated their duty to do so.

     Children are being publicly sacrificed for the sake of artistic self-expression; we must not deny this.

     Any parent who allows their child to be objectified for adults in such manners, should be looked at as if they were worse than a pimp. And they are worse than many pimps; because some pimps exclusively pimp adult women, and who leave children alone.


     Don't fall for cheap objectification. Don't yet others reduce you to the monetary value of your appearance and your image. Be a real person, not just a work of art. Respect yourself. Maintain your dignity and hold onto your innocence.
     Your dignity and innocence are more precious and valuable than anything you have, no matter how much others are willing to pay to see your other "talents", and no matter how much others are willing to devalue your innocence or cast doubt on its existence.


     We must not suffer those who question the innocence of children in order to justify "instructing" them about sex on the grounds that "they need to learn sometime". Anyone who talks like this is a sick person.
     When I attended the University of Wisconsin at Madison in the late 2000s, my "sociology of sex" professor announced that there would be an optional extra credit assignment in the course. He then held up the prize that would be given to the winner: a red T-shirt, with white letters that spelled "If you don't teach your kids about sex, I will."
     That might seem like a funny "inside joke", for academics working in the fields of sexual sociology and gender studies, because their job is to teach "kids" (really, eighteen-year-old adults) about sex. But ultimately, it is little more than a threat to rape people's children if they do not overwhelm their children with sexual information before they reach adulthood (basically, conservative people's children).
     This kind of talk should be unacceptable. It is joking about children's innocence and safety. And it has got to stop.



6. Author's Notes

     I have previously discussed many of the topics mentioned in this article; specifically in my September 2020 article "How Your Children Are Sexually and Economically Objectified and Trafficked into the Social Security Slavery System", which can be read at the following link:
     http://aquarianagrarian.blogspot.com/2020/09/how-your-children-are-sexualized-and.html




Written on March 8th and 9th, 2021

Published on March 9th, 2021
under the title
"Insisting That "Nothing Children Do is Sexual" Puts Kids in Danger"

Edited and Expanded on March 23rd, 2022
and April 25th and 26th, 2022

Title Changed on March 23rd, 2022

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