Showing posts with label child abuse. Show all posts
Showing posts with label child abuse. Show all posts

Saturday, May 8, 2021

Correcting the Record: Regarding the Details About Six of Forty-Three Dates on Which Molestation Could Have Occurred

     In my second report to police regarding the molestation I endured as a child, I explained that I may have been molested as many as 21 times, between 1992 and 2000. The majority of those incidents – as many as 12 of them (and certainly no less than 3 or 4) – occurred on the gray couch in the furnished basement of my childhood home, at 524 East Washington, in Lake Bluff, Illinois.

     I have identified, in previous statements, the forty-three Sundays between April and August of 1995 and 1996, as the dates on which those incidents of molestation on the gray couch could have taken place.

     I wish to clarify some things about seven of those forty-three dates.
     As I have stated, the twelve incidents in question – given as Incidents #2 through #13 in the first statement to police, and as Incidents #5 through #16 in the second statement – could only have occurred on forty-three possible dates:
     April 2nd, 9th, 16th, 23rd, and 30th; May 7th, 14th, 21st, and 28th; June 4th, 11th, 18th, and 25th; July 2nd, 9th, 16th, 23rd, and 30th; and August 6th, 13th, 20th, and 27th, 1995;
     and April 7th, 14th, 21st, and 28th; May 5th, 12th, 19th, and 26th; June 2nd, 9th, 16th, 23rd, and 30th; July 7th, 14th, 21st, and 28th; and August 4th, 18th, and 25th, 1996.



     The matter which I wish to clarify, is that I was less likely to be abused during major golf tournaments, than other dates mentioned. Those golf tournaments took place on seven of the forty-three Sundays I have listed.

     Those tournaments and dates were:

     
1) the Masters Tournament in Georgia, held on Sunday, April 9th, 1995;
     2) the U.S. Open in New York, held on Sunday, June 18th, 1995;
     3) the British Open in Scotland, held on Sunday, July 23rd, 1995;
     4) the Masters Tournament in Georgia, held on Sunday, April 14th, 1996;
     5) the U.S. Open in Michigan, held on Sunday, June 16th, 1996;
     6) the British Open in England, held on Sunday, July 21st, 1996; and
     7) the P.G.A. Championship in Kentucky, held on Sunday, August 11th, 1996.

     On the seven dates listed above, I believe that my father would have been less likely to have molested me, than the other thirty-six dates.
     I say that because my father is, and was at the time, such an avid golfer and golf fan, that he has routinely gone to parties at friends’ houses – or thrown his own parties – to watch golf tournaments on television.



     The significance of this is that I have increased the precision with which I have identified the dates on which I could have been molested.
     Those (between three and twelve) incidents of molestation on the gray couch, could only have occurred on the following dates:

    -  April 2nd, 16th, 23rd, and 30th, 1995;
      - May 7th, 14th, 21st, and 28th, 1995;
     - June 4th, 11th, and 25th, 1995;
     - July 2nd, 9th, 16th, and 30th, 1995; and
     - August 6th, 13th, 20th, and 27th, 1995;
 and
     - April 7th, 21st, and 28th, 1996;
     - May 5th, 12th, 19th, and 26th, 1996;
     - June 2nd, 9th, 23rd, and 30th, 1996;
     - July 7th, 14th, and 28th; and
     - August 4th, 18th, and 25th, 1996.


     As I have explained, I was molested no less than three or four times, and as many as ten or twelve times, on the gray couch (aside from nine other incidents, of which I have partial memory, and am not sure whether sexual touching occurred meanwhile).
     I can’t remember how many times it happened, because the pattern of abuse – sitting behind my father’s legs, being restrained onto my father’s lap, being tickled and partially suffocated through forced laughing, and then forced genital touching – occurred so similarly, over and over again.
     This fact makes it difficult to distinguish one incident from another in my memory, aside from two incidents. One is the time I clearly remember standing in the basement living room, telling my father that I didn’t want to sit behind his legs while he was watching television, knowing that he was probably going to touch me inappropriately. The other is the time I remember speaking to my mother in the laundry room and asking her to stay home.

     I wrote this statement because I want to make it clear that – if I was molested as many as twelve times on the couch – then there is as much as (approximately) a thirty percent (30%) chance that I was molested on any one of the dates, chosen at random from among the following even sets of three dates in close succession to one another.


     Namely:

     - there is as much as a 30% chance that I was molested on either April 2nd, 16th, or 23rd, 1995;
     - there is as much as a 30% chance that I was molested on either April 30th, or May 7th or 14th, 1995;
     - there is as much as a 30% chance that I was molested on either May 21st or 28th, or June 4th, 1995;
     - there is as much as a 30% chance that I was molested on either June 11th or 25th, or July 2nd, 1995;
     - there is as much as a 30% chance that I was molested on either July 9th, 23rd, or 30th, 1995;
     - there is as much as a 30% chance that I was molested on either August 6th, 13th, or 20th, 1995;
     - there is as much as a 30% chance that I was molested on either April 7th, 21st, or 28th, 1996;
     - there is as much as a 30% chance that I was molested on either May 5th, 12th, or 19th, 1996;
 and
     - there is as much as a 30% chance that I was molested on either May 26th, or June 2nd or 9th, 1996.

     August 27th, 1995, and August 18th and 25th, 1996, were left out of the set of dates above, since they could not be easily grouped together into sets of threes.

     My father, Richard S. Kopsick, should be asked where he was, and what he was doing – and whether he has electronic or paper records proving it - on the thirty-six dates listed above (as well as during the last week before Christmas of 1996, when Incident #20 occurred at the Union League Club Hotel in Chicago).



     To read my most recent statement to police (written between January 9th and March 3rd, 2021), please visit the following link:
     http://www.aquarianagrarian.blogspot.com/2021/03/second-statement-to-police-regarding.html




Written and Published on May 8th, 2021

Tuesday, March 16, 2021

Yelp Review for My Father's Law Office

     The following was written as a review, on Yelp.com, for my father's law office, the Law Offices of Richard S. Kopsick, P.C. (based in Waukegan, Illinois). It was written as a warning for those who are considering becoming his clients.



      Richard Kopsick is my father. When I was 28 years old I recovered memories of him molesting me at age 8 and 9. This year I found out that in 1993 my father defended a child molester named Kenneth Hasty.

     My father emotionally and psychologically tortured me every week of my life; by screaming at me, mocking me for seeming affectionate and emotional, making gay jokes about me, and refusing to talk to me when I needed his help most, until I was a drug addicted homeless person. Richard Kopsick would rather make me - his own first born son - into a silent homeless drug addict, and try to put me on sedatives and send him to a mental institution, than admit what he did to me.

     He would rather see me kill myself than admit that he committed at least 3 aggravated counts of criminal sexual abuse, punishable by up to 6 years in prison each. He subjected me to overwhelming tickling, including tickling on the genitalia, and told me we were just playing.

     Richard Kopsick is an alcoholic who drinks and drives and tailgates and speeds, uses the fact that he's a lawyer to get away with it, and lets minors drink in his presence.

     He tried to put me on a sedative "antipsychotic" before I had been diagnosed with anything and without anyone telling me what the drug would do to me. I could have become paralyzed or mute or unable to remember the abuse he inflicted on me as a child. I knew this man had no morals when I was 8 years old, when he told me it wasn't unethical to defend someone you know is guilty.

     Richard Kopsick is a narcissist who pretends he is friendly and affable, it is all an act. This is a facade he puts on because he can't admit who he really is. He hates children and he hates seeing joy in the faces of people he should love. Richard Kopsick is a severely disturbed individual.

     He has destroyed the cohesion of the family he built with my mother, after my mother's side of the family was already affected by the tragedy of childhood sexual abuse.

     My father inflicted horrible emotional, verbal, physical, and sexual abuse on me, and did it privately and subtly enough to get away with it but also openly enough to desensitize his wife and his other son to my abuse.

     His former partner Scott Gibson also pinched kids' asses at his pool parties, he [Gibson] and his ex-wife are severe alcoholics, and Gibson used to do heroin in the 70s. Richard Kopsick exposed me to this child molester and nobody stopped his ass grabbing.

     Richard Kopsick helped me find attorneys to defend me on some nonviolent marijuana possession charges, but never admitted that anti[-]pot laws can be challenged in court through jury nullification, and never admitted to anyone that [I] started smoking pot to fix the dissociative and antisocial states that [he] put me in as a child.

     Would rate zero stars if I could.



Written and Posted to Yelp on March 15th, 2021

Published to This Blog on March 16th, 2021

Wednesday, March 10, 2021

Delinquent and Abused Minors Subjected to Physical and Psychological Abuse Disguised as Therapy: W.W.A.S.P.S. and C.R.T.

Introduction


      This article is about a network of teen boot camps called W.W.A.S.P.S. (World Wide Association of Specialty Programs and Schools), and a field of family therapy called C.R.T. (Coercive Restraint Therapy).


     I have previously written about W.W.A.S.P.S.; in my February 2021 articles "Twenty-Two Real Child Sex Abuse and Trafficking Scandals That Indisputably Point to Government Complicity", and "Opinion: Israelis Probably Lying About Making Contact with Extraterrestrials".
     Those articles can be read at the links provided below.
     http://aquarianagrarian.blogspot.com/2021/02/twenty-real-child-sex-abuse-and.html
     http://aquarianagrarian.blogspot.com/2021/02/opinion-israelis-probably-lying-about.html

     I have previously written about C.R.T. as well; in my March 2021 article (and police report) titled "Second Statement to Police Regarding the Child Sexual Abuse Which I Endured at the Hands of My Father, Richard S. Kopsick, Between 1989 and 2000".
     That article can be read at the link provided below.
     
http://aquarianagrarian.blogspot.com/2021/03/second-statement-to-police-regarding.html


     Some of the information from those articles has been reproduced in the article below.



W.W.A.S.P.S. (the World Wide Association of Specialty Programs and Schools)

     When I was twenty years old - and living in Madison, Wisconsin - I met a young man from New Jersey. He liked to sing and play guitar on State Street for money. A month or two after meeting him, he taught me to hitch-hike.
     This young man told me that, when he was a teenager living in New Jersey, he started smoking marijuana as a young teenager, and even developed a cocaine habit by the end of high school.
     He told me that his mother enabled his cocaine habit, by allowing him to have sex with her friends, who were grown women, and usually overweight. She would allow her son to keep money from prostituting himself to her friends, and he would use the money to buy cocaine.

     My friend's story was already sad enough.
     But later on, he ended up in the care of his aunt.
     And unfortunately, however, his aunt stumbled upon brochures for some teen boot camps. They happened to be pamphlets about W.W.A.S.P.S., a network of "specialty programs and schools" for troubled teens and juvenile delinquents.
     These "schools" offer "tough love", and are actually boot camps. And they do not dispatch "tough love"; they inflict further psychological damage to the juvenile, and disguise it as something therapeutic.
     To paraphrase what T.V. judge Greg Mathis once said about a strict uncle's disciplinary approach, these boot camps are all tough, but no love.


     Remember the early 1990s, when Sally Jesse Raphael was still on television? She was one of the daytime "trash T.V." hosts who let troubled teens come on her show, only to be shouted at by drill sergeants who wanted them to go to boot camps.
      http://www.vice.com/en/article/4w7579/sally-jessy-raphael-the-accidental-gay-icon

     This "boot camp" phenomenon - and the related "Scared Straight program" trope - was so commonplace, in the 1990s, that it became a laughing matter on Chappelle's Show in the 2000s. Chris Rock did jokes about "Scared Straight programs", which were introduced to the public in the 1978 film Scared Straight!
     http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scared_Straight!

     Aside from the success of "scared straight" programs over the fifteen years after that film's release, it's even possible that there was a sinister reason, and maybe even a political reason, for the ubiquity of boot camps in 1990s culture.
     Senator Joe Biden had ties to the boot camp industry, and Senator Mitt Romney had ties to W.W.A.S.P.S. itself.

     In the mid-1990s, Joe Biden promoted boot camps as a supposedly less abusive alternative to prisons, when it comes to sentencing teenage delinquents and juvenile reprobates.
     A 2019 article from 
The New York Times explains that Biden advocated boot camps for first-time offenders. The rationale was that boot camps were supposedly less abusive than prisons.
     
http://www.nytimes.com/2019/06/25/us/joe-biden-crime-laws.html

     The C.E.O. of W.W.A.S.P.S. - Robert Lichfield - donated money to one of Mitt Romney's campaigns.
     http://reason.com/2007/06/27/romney-torture-and-teens/


     Knowing these facts, it's hard to deny the possibility that Romney, Biden, Sally Jesse Raphael, and/or other "trash T.V." hosts, might have been part of a secret conspiracy, between politicians and media, to push teen boot camps as a solution to the problems experienced by troubled and defiant teens.


     W.W.A.S.P.S. has been accused of horrendous physical, emotional, and sexual abuse against its teenage victims. I first became aware of this organization in 2007, and I have now met two people who were detained at W.W.A.S.P.S. facilities, and conversed with several others over the internet.
     The organization has - or formerly maintained - facilities in Utah, Montana, South Carolina, New York, Baja California, and possibly other locations in and outside of the U.S..
     http://www.edweek.org/leadership/oversight-sought-for-behavior-altering-schools/2004/11
     http://wwaspsurvivors.com/wwasp-programs/spring-creek-lodge/


     My friend from New Jersey spent about a year and a half at the W.W.A.S.P.S. location in Baja California, Mexico. That facility was called Casa by the Sea, and is located in the resort town of Ensenada.
     
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Casa_by_the_Sea
     The other person I met, who went through W.W.A.S.P.S., was detained at the Montana location, and knew my friend from New Jersey. Both of them suffered heroin addictions during their lives; and my friend from New Jersey sadly died of a heroin overdose several years ago.


     While detained in Casa by the Sea for those eighteen months, my friend was forced to speak only Spanish. He told me that the boys were separated from the girls, and all of them were expected to stay in unsanitary conditions.
     Their living quarters contained mostly hard, flat surfaces. The intense heat, at that latitude, made the children's designated time outdoors into a sunburned nightmare.
     My friend told me that he heard stories about people getting molested by guards, while there, as well as beaten. My friend told me, before he died, that he knew the names of specific guards who molested people.
     My friend told me that the W.W.A.S.P.S. facilitators lied to his aunt and uncle, telling them to ignore all of their nephew's attempts to write letters home, pleading to be rescued. The people at W.W.A.S.P.S. tell the parents of their detainees that the children are exaggerating, and/or lying to them.
     W.W.A.S.P.S. directly exposed children to severe danger. That is why most or all of them have been shut down. It's possible that secret facilities remain, though, due to the nature of Joe Biden's and Mitt Romney's special interest in their activities.


     The reports of beatings, rape, and molestation, at the hands of the agents of W.W.A.S.P.S., are tough to swallow. For the purposes of this article, the aspect of W.W.A.S.P.S.'s activities, on which I wish to focus, is the so-called "psychological therapy" which it dispensed to children.
     That "therapy", according to my friend who was at Casa by the Sea, included instructing the teens to scream - in Spanish - at the other teens. This was part of a "survival game", in which the teens must choose which of the other participants "lives", and which of them "dies", based on the person's treatment of them, and their skills. To put it directly, my friend was instructed to say "you live" to his friends, and scream "You die!" in Spanish to people in the program whom he didn't like.

     That is absolutely not therapy; that is psychological and emotional torture. It subjects teenagers to further trauma, when they are all living in dirty, hot cells, and many of them have already been traumatized, due to problems with crime, drugs, or maybe even physical or sexual abuse. There is nothing about instructing teenagers to scream at each other, and take sides against their peers (even if it's supposedly just as part of a "game"), which could possibly help a person become a better or more functional person. Such a thing could only have increased my friend's level of panic, worry, fear of social interaction, fear of being betrayed, and fear of death.
     This is not "tough love". The guards beat the shit out of kids, screamed at them, and made them scream at each other. Once you have someone in your care screaming all the time, it is very easy to justify screaming back, and disciplining them due to that screaming.


     I imagine that the detainees at W.W.A.S.P.S. facilities received a lot of "mixed signals" like these. There is nothing that our abusers want more, than for us to be drug-addicted, homeless, and hopeless, and screaming. They like to provoke and incite us into screaming, to make us look crazy.
     There is little about W.W.A.S.P.S.'s track record which would appear to suggest that they had interest in doing anything other than that.

     If you think about it, W.W.A.S.P.S. essentially operated a racketeering operation; that is, an operation that claims to solve a problem, but only solves half of it, and makes you dependent on them.
     W.W.A.S.P.S. treated juvenile delinquents with "therapy" that traumatized them further, so that they would need more therapy that didn't actually help them. And W.W.A.S.P.S. was right there, to make a profit at every turn.
     The goal was profit all along. If not secretive child abuse as well.


     It should be plain to see, from these facts, that just because W.W.A.S.P.S. facilities were marketed as "specialty programs", as "schools", and as "therapeutic", that is not necessarily an indication that "boot camps" are any less prone to abuse and assault, than prisons.
     Who knows how many children were sent to similar camps, when what they really needed was someone to listen to them, or a little less strictness, or even just something productive or social or physical to do after school?
     A little bit of tenderness goes a long way. Especially with innocent children, whose problems with crime and drugs usually begin - or at least escalate - through a parent's bad example, or enabling (as my friend's problems escalated).
     President Biden should apologize for his promotion of boot camps in the early 1990s. If he does not, then the Democrats must never again be allowed to pretend that they care about children (aside from whether they can exploit children's need for health insurance coverage for political gain).

     W.W.A.S.P.S. facilities have been located in Utah, Montana, South Carolina, New York, and Baja California. American Samoa may have also hosted a W.W.A.S.P.S. at one point.

     You can click on the links below to learn more about W.W.A.S.P.S., and to get connected with survivors of its programs.
     http://www.wwaspsurvivors.com/
     http://www.facebook.com/groups/wwaspsurvivors/





C.R.T. (Coercive Restraint Therapy) and Dr. Neil Feinberg


     In a very literal sense, it is a tragedy that the "attitude problems" of W.W.A.S.P.S. detainees were treated with screaming. But the next story is every bit as tragic.
     In the 1980s, child psychiatrists - trying to cure "Reactive Attachment Disorder" - stooped to subjecting children to unwanted touching by their foster parents and by the psychologists. This was done in order to "cure them" of their inability to form trusting relationships with their new foster parents.
     In many cases, the reason the child was up for adoption - and had trust issues, and didn't like to be touched - was (as you probably could have guessed) because they had been molested by their biological parents.
     That's right; some psychiatrists subjected child molestation victims to unwanted touching by strangers. But that doesn't even begin to describe the nature of the abuse.


     Coercive Restraint Therapy is extremely confrontational, as well as physical.
     Take a look, for yourself, at Dr. Feinberg's "therapy", if you can stomach it.
     http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNoIIwO3uIk
     http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KJLGcNlBIEc&list=PL60B879CA086B7B37
     http://www.childrenintherapy.org/proponents/feinberg.html
     http://anchoredinknowledge.com/attachment-therapy-a-so-called-re-birthing-experience/

    You can see, from the videos linked above, that Dr. Feinberg's "therapy" for children experiencing "Reactive Attachment Disorder", consists of at least six main tactics which are potentially traumatizing to the child:

     1) intense staring in the eyes;

     2) the adult (in this case, the psychologist) shouting at the child directly into his face;

     3) telling the child that he must respond directly and quickly (and "snappy");

     4) subjecting the child to intense poking and prodding and close unwanted touching;

     5) telling the child that he must be fun to be around and “bring something to the table” socially if he expects to deserve good treatment; and

     6) daring - and essentially ordering - the child to admit that he or she hates the parent (or psychologist).


     It is disturbing to note the similarity between #6 - ordering the child to admit he hates the adult - and what my friend experienced in the "group survival game" (when he was expected to scream "you die" at people he distrusted).
     This is very problematic and dangerous.
     Aside from being vulnerable - needing adults' protection and guidance to stay safe and make wise decisions - children are very suggestible. If psychologists and adults are free to direct children to say "I hate you", then the child would be disobeying the instruction, if he failed to verbalize the supposed hatred towards the adult in question.
     This sets a very dangerous precedent. It allows adults to get away with traumatizing children - in order to make the child hate the traumatizer on purpose - in order to make damn sure that those feelings of hatred for the adult are in the child.
     The traumatizer - whether it's a quack psychologist, or a parent who's trying to get away with abuse - can, quite literally, poke and prod, and incite and provoke, all he or she wants. And the child is not free to object, nor resist. Because this form of "attachment therapy" tells us that unwanted touching is something that it's OK to expose children to, without regard to whether it makes them uncomfortable.
     This set of circumstances, in turn, might even create a situation in which children are scarcely able to communicate their discomfort at all. This results in a situation in which it is extremely easy to get away with abusing the child, or with continuing to abuse it.
     Remember, the children who are most at risk of kidnapping while away from their parents, are the children whom the kidnapper notices are the most isolated. Abusing a child - whether physically, sexually, emotionally, or psychologically - predisposes that child to being alone (because nobody can understand their problems or their deep pain), thus perpetuating a cycle of loneliness and vulnerability.
     "Dr." Neil Feinberg's controversial form of "attachment therapy" - dubbed "Coercive Restraint Therapy" - is just that; coercive. It is designed to coax, pressure, and threaten children into assenting and submitting to more unwanted touching. An adult might take advantage of the leeway that this form of "therapy" allows him, to justify trying to brainwash and trick the child into thinking that the child is "asking for it", or else acting in a way that the adult instructed them was going to result in more unwanted touching.
     "Coercive Restraint Therapy" literally teaches adults how to groom children for pedophile abuse. Coercive Restraint Therapy is pedophile grooming. C.R.T. gives potential abusers all the tools they need, to get away with disguising their child abuse as "therapeutic", "bonding", and/or "discipline", should they choose to use Feinberg's techniques to touch a child's genitals as part of the unwanted touching which they were recommended to try.


     I should add that it was especially disturbing to discover what Dr. Neil Feinberg's attachment treatment involved, given what I experienced as a child. I experienced all six of Feinberg's main problematic techniques, at the hands of my father, but to a lesser degree, or in a slightly different way.
     I do not say this to compare my suffering to that of Feinberg's patients, but to articulate a set of circumstances which may be more relatable to the reader, and which is informed by my personal experience.


     1) While Feinberg made kids stare into his eyes at close-range, my father occasionally instructed me to look him directly in the eyes while he was lecturing me. This made me extremely uncomfortable, to such an extent that, in my early twenties, I noticed myself being afraid to look directly at other people's eyes as well, including trusted family members. Somewhere around age 18 or 20, my half-sister suggested that I might have Asperger's syndrome. Many people with Asperger's find looking directly at someone's eyes to be too intense to handle for prolonged periods of time. It can even elicit fear in some people who have autism spectrum disorders.
     2) While Feinberg shouted directly into kids' faces, and made them shout back, my father was not quite as confrontational. However, he did come into my room, and tower-over me and my brother with his arms folded, shouting at us at the top of his lungs (usually for minor behavioral problems), when we were as young as five and three years old.
     3) While Feinberg would order kids to respond in a "snappy" way, my father's approach was more subtle. He would sometimes ask me multiple questions, and expect me to answer them very quickly. He wouldn't say "make it snappy"; instead, he would simply start talking over me, when it seemed to him like I wasn't going to get out what I had to say, within the space of about three seconds. I have felt, in the past, like my father was trying to accelerate the conversation into a state of confusion and agitation, through making the questions and answers go faster and faster.
     4) Feinberg subjected kids to intense poking, prodding, and close unwanted touching. My father molested me multiple times in our basement, when I was eight and nine years old, poking and prodding all over my ribcage. He also gouged his fingers into my armpits while molesting me, and would sometimes stick his fingers into my collarbone when we were hanging around the living room together. He knew it made me uncomfortable, and he did it anyway. He has convinced himself that it is nothing to be embarrassed about; and probably also that nothing is anything to be embarrassed about. That's because my father is a child molester and a psychopath (in addition to being a narcissist), and child molesters and psychopaths have a diminished ability to feel embarrassment and remorse.
     5) Feinberg told kids to "bring something to the table". My father used this exact same phrase, when he criticized both me and my mother for being shy at social functions. He would say "You don't bring anything to the table". He said that to me after I sort of snuck into a chair on his patio, and sat next to my aunt. The fact that I did it without announcing that I had arrived, and without drawing a lot of attention to myself, was apparently an indication of "antisociality" or "asociality" to my father. My father also exerted some unwanted pressure to be "fun to be around", in the form of instructing me to play music. I believe that my father's inability to be as patient and polite and quiet as necessary, when listening to me play music - after the molestation I had suffered, which caused me Post-Traumatic symptoms - contributed to my loss of interest in playing guitar, and to the growing feeling that the guitar is a trigger for me, because it reminds me of my father, and the way he has discreetly mocked me for failing to become a professional musician.
     6) My father dared me to "admit" that I hated him, in basically the same way that Dr. Neil Feinberg directed kids in his care to "admit" that they hated Dr. Feinberg and their biological parents who had abused them. As I alluded to above, the first step is to remind the child of the previous abuse they suffered, the second step is to confront the child about it in a provocative way that incites them to anger, and the third step is to use the child's anger against him after it has been verbalized. My father said to me, on numerous occasions, "You think I'm just a big fuckin' asshole." I don't think he even followed it up with "don't you?". I think he just blindly asserted that I think he's an asshole. He would also say "You blame me for all of your problems." This began shortly after I turned 13 years old and began to disagree with him and question him openly. The fact that I had ever criticized him once, was used against me the second time I criticized him, and from that point on, my father built a pyramid out of times that I had rightfully criticized the way he was overreacting to my moderate bouts of misbehavior. My father made sure to turn that moderate behavior into pure hatred, elicit it at will by screaming at me for unreasonable things, and citing the fact that I screamed back, as evidence that I hate him. He made sure that my mother noticed any and all behavior in me which was even slightly objectionable, and at every possible opportunity, he has attempted to convince her that he was correct to discipline me as harshly as he did. Eventually, a few times, I caved, and followed my father's orders, admitting that he is the cause of many of my problems, because of the inordinate amount of control he was continuing to exert over my life at the time. How could I take responsibility for "my" decisions, when he was the one who had the final say on most of those decisions? My father made sure that I had plenty of reasons to hate him. If you can make yourself impossible not to hate, then you will have a very easy time accusing people of hating you, and daring them to admit it. My father made it so normal to be vindictive, growing up, that I now look vindictive when I am actually just rationally concerned about the possibility that my father is going to continue to mistreat me. He has conditioned me to expect so much mistreatment out of him, that I am now surprised whenever he is not screaming at me or assailing me with barrages of lies and denials.


     If the way Neil Feinberg treated children, isn't relatable, then maybe some of my experiences are.
     If you think about it, it's easy to see how Coercive Restraint Therapy could be "watered-down" and passed off as an instruction manual to subject children to such extreme levels of stress, and panic due to unwanted touching, that they submit, and have their wills broken.
     Considering what happened to me as a child and a teen, it's hard to tell whether my father's "disciplinary approach" was "just" extremely harsh, critical, and confrontational parenting, and father developed these bad ideas and habits himself; or whether what he did was so similar to Feinberg's Coercive Restraint Therapy, that he must have learned these "parenting techniques" somewhere.
     Maybe that sounds crazy.

    But that possibility is perhaps not as crazy, as the people who are eager to capitalize on how crazy we look, may want us to think it is.
     That's because this sort of "attachment therapy" extends beyond solely the bounds of Dr. Neil Feinberg, Coercive Restraint Therapy, and the Attachment Center in the Evergreen Psychotherapy College in Evergreen, Colorado.
     Coercive Restraint Therapy 
is also known as corrective attachment therapy, dyadic synchronous bonding, holding therapy, rage reduction therapy, and Z-therapy. Related forms of therapy include “re-birthing” and “re-birthing breathwork”, developed by Leonard Orr. Another related method is “psychic driving”.
     "Re-birthing breathwork" became controversial after a young girl, Candace Newmaker, was smothered to death with sheets and pillows during one of these “re-birthing breathwork” sessions. These sessions are supposed to simulate the child's birth again, to help form a bond with their parents. Sadly, "stimulating the child's birth again" through "re-birthing breathwork" involves depriving children of air for periods of time. Newmaker vomited and moved her bowels while being suffocated under sheets, contributing to her lack of ability to breathe quality air. She died after being left alone for five minutes, while in the care of unlicensed psychologists Connell Watkins and Julie Ponder, and her "therapeutic foster parents" Brita St. Clair and Jack McDaniel. Newmaker warned the adults, who crushed her body with theirs, that she was going to die, eleven times. To this, Julie Ponder responded "Go ahead, die right now for real. For real." Candace Newmaker was only ten years old when she died.
     
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Candace_Newmaker

     

     It was very shocking to discover this information.
     C.B.S.'s 48 Hours once showed clips of children being rolled up in mats in therapists' offices - almost as if they had just been murdered by the Mafia and were about to be thrown over a bridge - and to think this was passed off as “therapy” for the children just twenty-six years ago! This was in season 8, episode 21, titled "Afraid of Our Children". That episode was broadcast in 1995.
     View the videos linked below, to see what I'm talking about. You can clearly hear some of the children shouting that the adults are hurting them. The adults are in denial, though; they have convinced themselves that, when the child says "you're hurting me", they are simply "re-enacting the past abuse" which they suffered, which they are supposedly now getting over, by laying down screaming while adults compress parts of his body against the floor.
     http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x2nhoio
     http://www.instagram.com/p/CGYu9S0l_7J/
     http://www.instagram.com/p/CGYv6bSlMip/
     The particular "therapeutic" technique seen here, is called "re-parenting".
     Insane, isn't it!?


     The medical article linked below, confirms the fear I articulated above; that there is a "type of parenting" associated with Coercive Restraint Therapy, which is recognized by the psychiatric community, and has had an initialization for at least 16 years.
     That "parenting style" is called C.R.T.P., which stands for "Coercive Restraint Therapy".
     http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1681667/

     Presumably, so-called “attachment therapists” - whether licensed or not - taught parents that these "strict" techniques were acceptable, and that the appropriate way to discipline children and to induce bonds with them through direct touching and coercion. It is not.
     The bond which Feinberg is promoting is nothing but a trauma bond. This is not healthy. C.R.T. and C.R.T. Parenting are not therapy, nor are they forms of parenting. They are forms of child abuse, and C.R.T.P. imparts instructions to parents who want to commit acts of child abuse.

     Forced touching normalizes more forced touching, by getting the child accustomed to unwanted touching. Forced touching makes children susceptible to loneliness, and to someone noticing they're lonely (including, possibly, someone who might want to molest or kidnap them).
     This form of “parenting” could have gotten me kidnapped or even killed.
     
My father, and the psychiatric community, have obviously failed to recognize the harmful and pervasive nature of Coercive Restraint Therapy and related "therapies".


     Just as a negligent parent will be too negligent to recognize that they've been a negligent parent, you usually have to be actively looking for signs of child abuse, in order to find them.
     That may sound like a lot to ask, but any parent with a sense of morality should understand that protecting children is an honor and a privilege, not a burden.
     If a child is often lonely, cannot relate to others, seems sad or frowns a lot, can't stay happy for a long time, doesn't have a lot of friends, has dark circles around his eyes, touches himself too much, engages in sexual play with friends or pets, or refuses to talk about their problems, then you might want to ask whether your child has been sexually abused.
     Make sure they know the difference between "good touch" and "bad touch", and find out who might have traumatized them.

     Take it from me; child sexual abuse (i.e., molestation) can creep into a family situation so subtly, that even the most attentive of parents will fail to notice. 
     When I was a small child, between the ages of about five and eight, my grandmother would sit me in her lap, and draw a circle on my chest with her finger. She would chant, “Make a round circle, color it purple, somebody... tap, tap, tap!” Then she would tap against my chest repeatedly until I laughed. I did not have any problem with this when she did it.
     However, my father did the same thing to me, shortly after my grandmother began doing it. I remember that my father poked my chest too hard, and that there was something I didn't like about the way he did it.
     I suspect that my father may have gotten ideas about how to molest me and get away with it, by observing my grandmother (my mother's mother) playing with me.

     It is difficult enough to tell whether a child has been sexually abused. Having a calm talk with them - in which other trustworthy adults are present, and you inform the child that they're not in trouble - can do a lot, in terms of getting to the bottom of things.
     Ask the child whether anyone in their life scares them, screams at them, or touches them. Do not ignore red flags, such as the child insisting something bad about a person, which you seem to "know" is not true.
     Children do have wild imaginations sometimes. But a child who is reporting sexual abuse is usually not making it up. That's because of how difficult it would be to make up a story about a sexual encounter, when you have no knowledge of the subject.





Conclusion



     These abuses by psychiatrists and parents are too horrifying, tragic, and sad to bear.
     Psychiatrists, psychologists, parents, and anyone who might become a parent, needs to know this: If your child needs help, listen to what kind of help they are saying they need. Do not, under any circumstances, insist that they need a certain kind of help. You can make gentle suggestions, but do not use pressure or coercion. All people - especially innocent children - have the right to be free from manipulation, intimidation, and aggression, while others are talking to them.
     If children can be intimidated at will - and ordered to scream words of hate at others, at the threat of punishment - then they can be placed in a circumstance in which they cannot be trusted to make sound judgments or tell the truth. That's because Coercive Restraint Therapy, and W.W.A.S.P.S.'s techniques, placed children into states of duress.
     And, in case another reminder is necessary, these were already minor children, whom were therefore already in a state of reduced ability to make sound judgments, and to give consent (by the virtue of their being children).


     To those who might still argue that these techniques may be therapeutic - at least for truly insane and/or violent children who cannot be stopped from harming others - I'll admit that that could be a valid argument.
     The 1992 documentary Child of Rage introduced the world to Beth Thomas, a six-year-old girl who stabbed and sexually abused her little brother. Beth was diagnosed with Reactive Attachment Disorder (R.A.D.).
     http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/parenting/kids/stunning-transformation-of-beth-thomas-tvs-child-of-rage-psychopath/news-story/2e8658abcd295a768b4d9d8a73845537

     It could be argued that children as violent as Beth, could benefit from some forms of attachment therapy. It's difficult to say, however, which forms. That's because they all seem to involve either unwanted touching, or other potentially traumatizing activities, and even activities that rightfully cause a child to fear for their life. And that is the admitted goal of "re-birthing breathwork" and related therapies. [Note: It's also a goal of "born-again" Christianity, but the extent of that correlation is a different topic for a different article.]
     I wouldn't advise any of the techniques involving unwanted touching, anyway. Not in Beth's case, nor in cases similar to hers.
     That's because, as News.Com.au reported in the article linked above, "It emerged that Beth had grown up neglected, and been sexually abused by her biological father until she was 19 months old."
     Read that again if you have to: "until she was 19 months old." That means she was sexually abused numerous times before the age of just one year and seven months.
     If I had been molested numerous times before the age of two, I would probably be in too severe and constant a state of trauma and panic, to do anything but scream and try to kill things that are smaller than I am.


     When it comes to disciplining children, more child abuse is never the answer. The fact that that has to be stated, should prompt serious concern, about how lax our society has been about children's well-being over the last forty years.
     Places like the Attachment Center, and W.W.A.S.P.S. facilities, must never be allowed to exist in this country. We've done the unethical experimentation with unwanted touching of children as a potential therapy for child abuse. It failed. It doesn't work. It makes things worse.
     If we do not stop subjecting child abuse victims to child abuse, then we will find ourselves drugging people for coming to therapists with drug addiction problems. We will find ourselves drugging victims of abuse and neglect, with the kinds of supposedly "antipsychotic" neurotranquilizing sedatives which are prescribed to juvenile delinquents, when they come forward saying they remember incidents of abuse as children.
     That's all the better for the abusers, as the children will scarcely be able to remember their childhoods, when they're struggling to speak and think clearly, due to negative side effects associated with Abilify and other drugs.
     In fact, that has already begun.

     I feel another article coming on...




Written and Published on March 10th, 2021
Edited and Expanded on March 11th, 2021

Contains excerpts of articles originally written in February 2021

Monday, February 22, 2021

Government-Involved Child Sexual Abuse Scandals: Which Ones Are the Easiest to Prove?

      The infographic below was created in order to display the information I collected in my February 2021 article "Twenty-Three Real Child Sex Abuse and Trafficking Scandals That Indisputably Point to Government Complicity".
     That article can be read at the link below.

     Since many of the scandals mentioned in that article involved multiple people, the set of scandals referenced in the infographic has been expanded from twenty-three to thirty-eight.
     I have constructed a five-tier system, to sort the clearest examples of complicity in child trafficking and child sexual abuse (or leniency on child traffickers) by agencies or officials of government.










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Created and Published on February 22nd, 2021

Expanded on April 23rd, 2021


Thursday, February 18, 2021

Case of Mistaken Identity Prompts Re-Opening of Wayfair Trafficking Scandal

      The following text is an excerpt of a previous article.
     Several sentences from the first few paragraphs of that excerpt, have been omitted from this article, for the sake of presenting this information without any unnecessary introductions.

     That article focused on the possibility that the Indian paramilitary group R.S.S. may be attempting to infiltrate the United States; through Congress, through Hollywood, and through the business world.
     The excerpt below was taken from the section of that article which examines whether Indian-American Wayfair C.E.O. Niraj Shah could be working for the R.S.S..

     The following text originally appeared in my February 2021 article “Twenty-One Politicians and Celebrities Who May Be Indian R.S.S. Agents”. The full article can be read at the link below:
     http://aquarianagrarian.blogspot.com/2021/02/thirteen-politicians-and-celebrities.html





     Niraj Shah was born in Massachusetts in 1973 or 1974, the son of Indian immigrants. He is the C.E.O. of Wayfair, a company that delivers furniture. Wayfair was accused in 2020 of operating a child sex trafficking ring.

     Niraj Shah is also one of the directors of the Federal Reserve Bank of Boston. He began that role in 2017.
     It should concern us that Niraj Shah holds such a high position in the hierarchy of the Federal Reserve System, while also being the C.E.O. of a company that was worth over $9 billion dollars the year before the trafficking scandal.


     In 2020, rumors grew on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram, that Wayfair was operating a child trafficking operation, by imprisoning children inside of the bureaus, dressers, and armoires that it was shipping, and delivering them for outrageous prices.
     So the theory went - and this part is true - the company named pieces of furniture with very rare names for human beings. The most famous example of this was a storage cabinet which the company named the Samiyah. Another example was a pillow called the Duplessis.



     Miraculously, mainstream media (such as USA Today) picked up on the story. However, they debunked it, given the fact that Samiyah Mumin (pictured in the image above, on the left) made a publicly shared video saying that she was not missing.
     http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7bXCanblVDg


     However... Samiyah Mumin was not the only child suspected to have been missing, in relation to Wayfair. Minors named Samara Duplessis, Anabel Wilson, Kylah Coleman, Ambrose Klingensmith, Yaritza Castro, Cameron Dziedzic, Mary Durett (or Durrett), and Brandon Dalessandro also went missing.



     Dalessandro was found, according to the Daily Mail article depicted above.



     According to the Facebook post below, Klingensmith, Dziedzic, and Durrett have been found (Durett in Texas in 2017); Wilson remained missing; and no information concerning Castro is available. According to this post, two adults were taken into custody for child endangerment in the case of Klingensmith.

     It is possible that the post is incomplete, or even partially made up, however. I will leave it to my readers to investigate this matter further. But there is reason to doubt the veracity of this post because it lists Kylah Coleman as both "missing" and "NOT MISSING".

     The post is correct about Mumin, however.

     http://www.facebook.com/105546164563867/posts/samiyah-mumin-never-missingupon-initial-research-we-found-out-that-samiyah-was-m/111838707267946/


     Getting back to Samiyah Mumin...

     Mumin wasn't just the only minor suspected of being missing due to the fault of Wayfair and its patrons; she also wasn't the only girl named Samiyah! Girls named Samiyah Bond and Samiyah George also disappeared around the same time.

     You might be thinking "So what? Three girls have the same name, and that's supposed to convince me that they were shipped to some pedophile Wayfair customer in a storage cabinet?"

     Bear with me.



     First off, there is an easy explanation for Wayfair researchers' confusion between several girls named Samiyah. Astonishingly, all three of them are from Ohio.


     Article proving that Samiyah Bond went missing from Ohio in July 2018:
     
http://fox8.com/news/missing-samiyah-bond/

     Article proving that Samiyah Yasmeen Mumin went missing from Columbus, Ohio in May 2019:
     
http://www.newsbreak.com/news/1361527573849/missing-from-columbus-ohio-17-year-old-samiyah-mumin?s=oldSite&ss=fb.city.497958377064835

     Article proving that Samiyah George went missing from Garfield Heights, Ohio in July 2020:
     
http://www.cleveland19.com/2020/07/02/missing-year-old-garfield-heights-girl-found-safe/
     

     When reports came out that Samiyah Mumin was never missing, and Samiyah George had been found, most people who knew about the scandal sighed sighs of relief, and probably reckoned that the conspiracy were crazy.

     It's a shame that they never thought to ask, "Well, where was Samiyah George found!? Was she found in a storage closet?" Where the Hell was she when she was found? If she was found in a storage closet - which we still don't know - then wouldn't that prove that there is something to this conspiracy theory after all?

     She did go missing at the exact same time the Wayfair scandal gained public attention, now, didn't she!?
     The Wayfair child trafficking scandal has not been debunked.



     None of the above might seem suspicious, if not for two other important facts: 1) Wayfair trafficking researchers performed searches for the item numbers, and discovered that they led to pictures of children, some of them in swimsuits or revealing clothing; and 2) Ohio is probably a hub for the trafficking of children.

     The image below explains how researchers found out that searches of Wayfair product item numbers led to disturbing pictures of children. One Twitter user tweeted, "I look up the SKU # [stock-keeping unit number] followed by US SRC [source code] on Yandex and... W T F". Yandex is an internet service company, and "W.T.F." stands for "what the fuck".



     The image below shows an example of a screenshot of the item number, and the image search leading to images of children, side by side.


    Researchers thought the absurdly high prices strange, and reasoned that they are probably not due to a computer glitch.

     Researchers have also noted that "Wayfair" could be a play on words, referring to "waifs" (thin, scrawny women who look like they are malnourished).




     The image above shows that researchers discovered Wayfair deleting items that researchers believed were questionable.



     It's possible that some, or even a lot, of these images could have been "Photoshopped", or edited, but if even some of them show what they are claimed to show by the people who assembled them, then there is cause for concern.

     If the prices are high for a reason - and the absurd prices are not just computer glitches - then it's possible that the high prices could be attributable to Wayfair catering mostly to customers on the wealthy end of the spectrum (i.e., the kind of people who have enough disposable income to spend on furniture).

     If some of these customers are so wealthy that they have become well connected, and entered elite circles and learned how to conduct their affairs discreetly, then there is a chance that Wayfair's high prices reflect their service to the rich.

     Or, at the very least (if something nefarious is afoot), the price might not be the actual amount paid by the customer in the end; the high price might instead serve as a signal that what is going to be delivered is something "much more valuable" than the actual storage closet, or pillow, etc..



     You could say "Maybe it's all Photoshopped". And if you were to ask, "How the Hell did researchers figure out what item numbers led to pictures of children?", then I would have to admit that I'm almost as confused as you are.
     All of this could be brushed off. If not for the fact that this is not the first time that Wayfair has been affiliated with human trafficking. Wayfair provides beds to immigrant detention facilities maintained by I.C.E. (Immigration and Customs Enforcement).
     The image below is a meme that was made by a Wayfair researcher in mid-2020. It reads, "So the same wayfair that supplies beds to ICE, who has lost over 2000 kids in their custody, is also possibly selling missing children on their website as $10k+ furniture and pillows........ the math is actually mathing on this one" [meaning that things are "adding up"].




     Astonishingly, the Wayfair trafficking scandal was dismissed and falsely "debunked", after Wayfair employees protested the sale of furniture to detention centers in late June of 2020. News of the scandal went public in June or July.

     http://www.npr.org/2019/06/26/736308620/wayfair-employees-protest-sale-of-furniture-to-migrant-detention-center



     Over the last two years, I have made reference, multiple times, to the possibility that human beings are being shipped in containers marked as art, in order to avoid the kind of inspections which would come with the transportation of human beings.

     I have speculated about this, based on: 1) the Israeli spies who posed as movers and art students in the U.S. in 2001, and 2) Marina Abramovic's affiliation with neo-liberal and Zionist elements in Hollywood, in addition to her blending of the distinction between what is a human being and what is a piece of art (as well as using bodily fluids as paint).

     Jeffrey Epstein's connection to the art world, and the transportation and human smuggling in which his submarine-company-owning co-conspirator Ghislaine Maxwell, would certainly fit as a piece in that puzzle. Epstein certainly treated women as objects of art. He certainly treated them like objects (presenting himself as a scout for Victoria's Secret models); I suppose that the artistic aspect of the objectification made the treatment seem less oppressive.


     To wrap this all together:

     Epstein has ties to not only Israel, the art world, and human smuggling (which would fit in line with the idea that Israel could be spying on the U.S. in order to traffic children for various purposes).

     But there is a possible link between Jeffrey Epstein and the Wayfair scandal, which explains a point I mentioned earlier: Samiyah Bond, Samiyah George, and Samiyah Mumin were all from Ohio. That link is Leslie Wexner.

     Leslie Wexner, the C.E.O. of Victoria's Secret who funded Jeffrey Epstein, is one of the most prominent businessmen in Columbus, Ohio. Northern Columbus is home to the Wexner Medical Center and the Wexner Center for the Arts. Alleged Jeffrey Epstein victim Maria Farmer, an artist, told reporter Whitney Webb that Wexner practically owns the city.

     Epstein investigator George Webb has also visited Rickenbacker Airport in Ohio, and explained what Leslie Wexner and Jeffrey Epstein's airplanes had to do with the airport. Webb says that Epstein participated in the Iran-Contra affair in the 1980s, using the airport as a hub or stopping point on a journey to fly nuclear weapons components to Iran.

     [Notes: It's unclear whether George Webb and Whitney Webb are related. Additionally, Webb's reliability could be questioned, because he has admitted to having worked for the Israeli M.O.S.S.A.D. in the past. But he could be a turncoat. Webb's reporting should be taken with that grain of salt. However, his statements about William Barr's father and his association with Jeffrey Epstein, would help explain the connection between Epstein and Donald Trump, and it would also explain why Trump hired William Barr and Elliott Abrams - disgraced figures from the Reagan-era Iran Contra scandal - to serve in his administration, despite their obvious lack of credibility and corrupt natures.]

     Jeffrey Epstein and Leslie Wexner might have nothing at all to do with the Wayfair child trafficking scandal. But at least, now, we know why so many children are disappearing from Ohio.
     If Israelis have kidnapped American children, what would stop Leslie Wexner from throwing a couple of teenage African-American girls to investors he might have, who come from India?
     Maybe one such person is Niraj Shah himself.

     It may seem wrong to suspect Niraj Shah of involvement in child sex trafficking, just because he leads a company suspected of it, and he's of Indian origin. But that is not what I am saying.
     He is on the board of a Federal Reserve bank. His father worked for General Electric, which owns N.B.C. and makes transportation vehicles for the U.S. military (and is therefore a war profiteer). And he leads a multi-billion-dollar company, which was accused of kidnapping girls who disappeared from one of the most kidnapping-plagued states in the nation.
     You might be saying "The fact that Ohio is plagued with kidnapping completely explains the disappearance of three girls." Really? All of them with the same names, within just a two-year time span?

     
Leslie Wexner must be investigated, and what he knows about Epstein and sex trafficking in Ohio should be determined. Ghislaine Maxwell should not be let off with probation or a plea deal; she should do hard time in prison because she is a serial child rapist and an enthusiastic accomplice to human trafficking.
     And to what extent Niraj Shah, the Israeli M.O.S.S.A.D., and the R.S.S., may be involved in international human trafficking and child smuggling, should be investigated.




Original excerpt written on February 16th, 2021

This article first published on February 18th, 2021

How to Fold Two Square Pieces of Card Stock into a Box

      This series of images shows how to take two square pieces of card stock (or thick paper), and cut and fold them into two halves of a b...